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Being rude to service staff. Immediate indicator on who they are as a person. There is zero reason to ever be mad at someone making near minimum wage whose job it is to grab you a drink or check you out or something. It also shows that they've themselves never worked service, which is a rite of passage

+1 to being rude to service staff Also MAGA apparel or citing Jesus/God constantly

So many things.

• queer phobic. I'm not queer but many of my friends are. I don't need that negativity in my life.
• smoker. Maybe a pass if they are actively trying to quit. Maybe. Most active smokers I've known have kind of been assholes about it, though.
• littering. Sometimes combined with the above when smokers throw their butts on the ground
• being a jerk about people having healthy hobbies. Like, just let someone enjoy some video games or bird watching or whatever. I can't with people who are like "omg that's so childish you still [play games/read fiction/go to the zoo/whatever]?".
• being anti-consent. I've met a few women who are like "just do stuff and I'll tell you if I don't like it" and I'm like lady there's some "stuff" that can be done that by the time it's happening , the damage is done. Let's just have a conversation about what we like and what our boundaries are.

Smoking cigarettes

Might be picky but if they don't return their shopping carts or just leaves it in a parking spot

Use the word "Woke" (Or "Progre" in my language) Unironically.

Rudeness to cashiers, wait staff, housekeepers, children or elderly people. If you are mean or rude to these people I assume you think you matter more based on social standing, and can't be bothered to even be polite. At that point I don't care if you are nice to me.

• Right-wing
• Cluster-B traits
• *-ist, *-phobe
• Prescriptive gender roles
• Smokes

Having a shitty attitude about anything.

It just seems like you're not able to enjoy things because you're just a sour person.

Anti-vaxxer / conspiracy theorist.

"Have you ever heard of Jordan Peterson?"

being mean to animals, not washing hands habitually, littering, leaving the shopping cart out, buzz cut / crew cut and variations thereof (for dudes, some chicks can rock it), having no weird behaviors at all. refusal to be emotionally honest (oh no, its me i'm sorry)

Republican

Someone that takes abstract statements personally and responds in anger. It shows a lack of self awareness and depth. It also implies that they have a limited binary view of the world around them; a bipolar me versus others perspective outlook.

Short list of obvious ones:

• Haven't binge watched all of skibidi toilet in one sitting
• Uses Windows MacOS iOS or Android
• Wipes after shitting / No shitbucket
• Thinks git is github
• Haven't memorized all of the ANSI X3.159-1989 C standard

Far right or far left. Both obnoxious. How hard is it to do what's right for people and not have to be on either end of a fucking seesaw?

A hidden switch on their hip.

1. Showing they are dumb (believing conspiracy theories, Maga, repeating nonsense)

2. Being racist, judgy, overall nasty with people

3. Being nasty to animals

Being conservative, being rude and impatient, not understanding that people are human and sometimes just make errors.

Compliments me by insulting everybody else.

“It’s so cool that you X. Everybody not in the room sucks because they don’t do X”

Just leave that second sentence off please.

I've ended a relationship because the girl drove like an impatient bafoon. If you have a superiority complex about a speed limit in residential areas, I'll sit in the passenger seat railing about how you're such a shit driver. Just drive the speed limit and gently.

• Bad breath
• Body odour
• Thinking they are gods gift
• Too much make-up and fucking awful Botox lips

In the romantic sense, someone that seems dumb or childish. I just can't go there without some sense of being a peer.

Bad breath

Edit: for anyone who has this problem... just see your doctor or dentist. You don't need to suffer . It's curable.

Anyone who doesn’t respect your boundaries.

That, and republicans.

Unaware status-seeking behavior. Almost everyone does it.

Lemmy.ml mod /s

Status quo defender

Being into “crystals”, auras and shit like that. Like, have you taken leave of your senses?

Lack of interest, like they're just waiting their turn to talk about what they want to talk about and not actually listening to me.

The other big one off the top of my head is not liking any animals. I get most people eat them, but if you straight up don't like anyone else you're kinda scary. No thank you.