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[–] Strangle@lemmy.world 209 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

This is very sad, and preventable.

Reading the article it sounds like this woman unfortunately just spent too much time on social media reading all the doom and gloom of the media and people amplifying it in places like reddit, Twitter and Facebook.

wanted to live in a land disconnected from the world, which she viewed as chaotic and dangerous

she and her teenage son could be happy and safe away from the news, the viruses, the politics of modern-day America

had been “discouraged with the state of the world”

Rebecca Vance’s fears intensified during the pandemic

Consuming too much of this crap has really affected peoples mental health, from Trump, to BLM riots, racism, covid, it’s broken some people who spend too much time on social media.

So much so that they think the only way out is to hide away from society.

Reminder, friends, to take frequent and extensive breaks from social media for your own mental health.

[–] BakedGoods@sh.itjust.works 82 points 1 year ago

The teenager — whom Jara described as a smart and caring son who had been a “mama’s boy” and had been home-schooled

The only food found at their shelter was a single package of ramen

[–] InverseParallax@lemmy.world 64 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Please, I knew people who were exactly the same back in the 90s, there are always people who go down the paranoia rabbit hole and don't come back out.

Lot of them were praying for the collapse because that's when God would raise them above the wicked heathens and sodomites because they're secretly special but everyone else is too evil to admit it.

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.world 74 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The article said the poor kid was homeschooled, which is often a hallmark of religious fundamentalism. Not trusting the world and thinking it's out to get you is also a hallmark of fundamentalism - but also of mental illness.

She's from Colorado Springs (massive conservative area) and she became concerned about the world and wanted to live off the grid in 2022 (when Trump lost). The writer of this article sure does beat around the bush and struggles not to say whether she was a right wing nut.

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 49 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The BLM "riots" were 99% protests where the only violence was on the part of the cops harassing protesters.

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[–] candyman337@lemmy.world 42 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You can't lump in blm riots in there, those were protests stoked to violence by police officers, so what you should be saying it's, corrupt police forces resulting in blm protests

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[–] Saneless@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

Not reading Twitter has a tangible impact on my anxiety. You can feel it rise when I used it, fell away when I stopped.

I haven't used Facebook in almost 2 years now and it's so nice

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[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 152 points 1 year ago (15 children)

I hate how people talk about off grid living as something you can pull off alone, that's difficult even if you allow for buying food and installing all kinds of fancy infrastructure in your home.

The truth is that properly sustainable and reliable off-grid living requires a small community, because you need a lot of labour.

[–] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 58 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Right? Living off grid used to be called being banished by your tribe and it was basically a death sentence.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago

Other people are annoying as fuck, but I recognize I need them to live.

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[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 42 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You nailed it. And these folks were simply living off canned food and ramen... For how long?

Communal living is great if you get the right mix of people with a shared vision... In the right location... With the right resources... To be successful it seems you need to have a pretty organic evolution of the process and attract people with shared vision. The dark side of this devolves into cultism; the brighter side is a sustainable living and sense of belonging.

Now there are people who live off the grid in places like Alaska (just watch Life Below Zero) and do it successfully... But these people grew up doing that or studied and prepared A LOT. And man, doing that solo is not easy. None of them seemed to be super healthy or cheerful.

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago

In the past it took entire villages who still engaged in trade. Even back then you were on the grid even if it was a stone age one.

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[–] malcriada_lala@lemmy.world 103 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I wish people would realize that humans only got to where we are because we are a COMMUNAL species. We developed complex language and tool usage BECAUSE we work together. Being "off the grid" is usually isolationist and therefore extremely dangerous. We need community in order to develop and manage the resources we need to survive.

[–] Madison420@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well no, there's a difference between offgrid and alone and an offgrid commune.

[–] KinglyWeevil@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 1 year ago (6 children)

The secret ingredient is commun~~al~~ism.

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[–] Toneswirly@lemmy.world 82 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I feel for the kid, who got dragged down by the hubris of his mom. It's troubling that we've grown so disconnected from the world we've built; we dont feel like we benefit from it at all. We can all sit here and shame this mother for being neglectful and stupid, and yet the feelings she had of a chaotic life with no upside...that's so fucking common right now.

[–] JGrffn@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Its a commonly floated idea among my circles, and by me personally, that we kinda just want to fuck off and build a comfy commune somewhere not too hot, not too cold, just away from cities, and try to be as self-sufficient as possible. Just a small group of friends and family. It's kinda what I'm saving up for, if I'm honest, because buying a city house is just.... Prohibitively expensive for what it is.

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[–] TIEPilot@lemmy.world 78 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Into the Wild was a cautionary tail that for some reason people romanticize...

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[–] Cuttlefishcarl@sh.itjust.works 73 points 1 year ago (7 children)

What a terrible way to go. They sounded less prepared than even Chris McCandless.

I can't believe I'm recommending reality TV, but Alone is a fairly good representation of being alone in the wilderness with no resources. It is extremely unpleasant.

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[–] Zron@lemmy.world 67 points 1 year ago (7 children)

How did they leave a car at a campsite for months and not have any kind of search and rescue triggered?

My buddy got lost on a trail once and had to do an shitty night out in the woods, the next morning there were forest service personnel out looking for him because they spotted his car parked overnight with no camp permit posted.

I thought this was standard practice at every national and state park. An unattended vehicle is seen as a sure sign that someone is in trouble. I guess I’m never going hiking in Colorado, cause if I get in trouble the CO forest personnel are apparently just going to leave me for dead.

[–] MarsAgainstVenus@fedimav.win 27 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that's insane. Also, now I know where to go if I ever need to store my vehicle for extended periods of time!

[–] lortikins@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

From what I've read they weren't in a sanctioned Park, this was more of a back country area tucked away in the woods.

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[–] stopthatgirl7@kbin.social 66 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I feel like too many people do not respect nature. They romanticize it, and that’s a very dangerous thing. They forget that you need actual skills to survive in the wild. This didn’t have to happen.

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (4 children)

That has gotten worse with all the "survivalist" shows acting like its easy to survive with just a knife and fig leaf in the wild.

They see a show grab some gear and off they go. Not realizing those shows are often fake and when not, the star has many years of actual experience and training.

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[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 62 points 1 year ago (9 children)

I'd say they increased their distress, they were naive too. Living off the land is a major commitment and requires skill and knowledge. People in the past still used trade and tribes to survive that way. Even back then they didn't try to live in something as flimsy as a tent. Also, going 100% solo was a death sentence. Reminds me of Chris McCandless ("Into the Wild").

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Sounds tough. I dont even know how to find and catch wild ramens.

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[–] thefloweracidic@lemmy.world 56 points 1 year ago (17 children)

Once I watched a season of alone I dropped all illusions about running into the woods to live the naturalist life.

If anyone is thinking "lol I could do that" just watch alone, it is HARD out there in the wilds.

[–] geekworking@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

In the show Alone the take away is that fat beats skills. All of the super fit "survival experts" with 5% body fat are being carried out on stretchers in a couple of weeks. The 300lb dude with minimal skills out lasts all of the experts.

The environment just doesn't have enough fat calories available. Skill won't change this.

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[–] popemichael@lemmy.sdf.org 54 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If they had read a few more books on survival, this would have been prevented.

Usually those books tell you that you need provisions through winter and if you don't, you need to get those provisions from someplace.

Nobody typically lives 100% off the grid the first year or more unless they're a super expert.

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[–] foggy@lemmy.world 40 points 1 year ago (3 children)

...the whole family?

Like, one didn't die and the rest of them didn't go "hmm this isn't a good idea..."???

[–] verysoft@kbin.social 32 points 1 year ago

Looks like it was probably from hypothermia or malnourishment or a bit of both. They could have died the same night, very sad.

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[–] A_A@lemmy.world 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Believe in many stupid trending ideas and you will end up killing yourself and your family. This is not the first time and it will happen again.

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[–] YoBuckStopsHere@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (5 children)

First rule of the Rocky's, don't camp / hike outside in the winter, you will not survive.

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even with a well-stocked cabin, the cold alone will sap your energy and kill you slowly.

Trying to survive it in a tent isn't mere ignorance, it's outright stupidity.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 35 points 1 year ago

"How long were they out there, sheriff?"

"I'd say 2... Maybe 3 hours?"

[–] MrsDoyle@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago (5 children)

They started out in late summer. In an area with very cold winters. I'm no brainiac, but even to me this seems like poor planning.

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[–] ryannathans@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Imagine not giving up when out of food and cold

[–] wazoobonkerbrain@lemmy.world 50 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Imagine not giving up when out of food and cold

Running out of food would bother me more than running out of cold

[–] Gork@lemm.ee 36 points 1 year ago

With the way climate change is going, we'll be running out of cold pretty soon.

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[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Technically, they’re still off the grid.

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[–] sagrotan@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

I understand many people are frightened in this strange world, but this is outright murder-suicide by stupidity. The kid didn't know what's happening to him. Don't run away, change the world. Or -at least- try to.

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