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I wouldn't dare defile Douglas Adam's memory by not mentioning that you should keep a towel with you at all times, but my second contender is a surprisingly short three-parter:

  1. never lie.
  2. never tell the whole truth.
  3. never pass up a chance to use a real bathroom.
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[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 72 points 3 weeks ago

Confidence isn't about being confident but acting confident. Act confident and life will be a lot easier.

[-] witty_username@feddit.nl 21 points 3 weeks ago

Except if you want to do good science. Good scientists will identify false confidence and will aim to steer well clear of it

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[-] Nemo@midwest.social 71 points 3 weeks ago

Slow is smooth and smooth is fast.

[-] knobbysideup@sh.itjust.works 24 points 3 weeks ago

Ride smooth not fast has won me some mountain bike races.

[-] Nemo@midwest.social 11 points 3 weeks ago

I first heard it in the context of carpentry, but I've since heard it in kitchens as well.

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[-] brygphilomena@lemmy.world 70 points 3 weeks ago

Leave it better than you found it.

Goes for your home, your neighborhood, or something you've borrowed. It can be applied to the planet, the beach, the trail, the car, the job.

Hell, it even goes for people. Leave them a little happier, a little wiser, a little more prosperous than before.

Second rule, give people the benefit of the doubt and don't attribute an action as the person. Did they cut you off on the road? They're having a bad day and made a mistake. They're speeding? Maybe they are on the way to see a loved one without much longer to live. Don't call someone an asshole just because they made an asshole move. People are so much more than that one interaction with them.

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[-] OttoVonNoob@lemmy.ca 44 points 3 weeks ago

Think before you speak, I speak without thinking and it's got me in trouble for petty things. Using WE over YOU is extremely valuable.. even when you had nothing to do with the problem it is OUR problem.

[-] Azzu@lemm.ee 9 points 3 weeks ago

"We" should vacuum the house! *wink* *wink*

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[-] BroncosBuck99@lemmy.world 38 points 3 weeks ago
[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 weeks ago

Simple and to the point, everyone should know and follow this. One of the best pieces of advice from the Dalai Lama

"Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them."

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[-] bestusername@aussie.zone 32 points 3 weeks ago

Get a VPN and pirate everytime!

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[-] mydude@lemmy.world 27 points 3 weeks ago

No-one has ever said on their deathbed, "I only wish I worked more"

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[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 26 points 3 weeks ago
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[-] joshfee@kbin.social 26 points 3 weeks ago

Identify the true problem before trying to find a solution

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[-] Jyek@sh.itjust.works 24 points 3 weeks ago

If everywhere you go smells like shit, check your shoes.

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[-] BugleFingers@lemmy.world 21 points 3 weeks ago

Evaluate how much something matters based on 1 day, 1 month, 1 year.

I.E. How upset should you be over [Thing]? Will it matter in one day? One month? One year? That helps perspective a bunch. You can use any variation of time really, the point is perspective

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[-] useyourmainfinger@lemmy.world 20 points 3 weeks ago

Do not, and I can't stress this enough! Put your dick, in crazy..

[-] ExhaleSmile@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago
[-] frunch@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

↖️This is the real life pro-tip right here

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[-] toastal@lemmy.ml 18 points 3 weeks ago

Corporations aren’t your friend. Avoid the publicly-traded ones seeking quartely profits the most. If it isn’t a massive burden, find an alternative—avoiding some is better than none.

I'd add "Don't defend any corp".

Not just talking to the Tesla bros either. I mean ANY corp. Including Steam.

You can show support. But if/when they do something shitty, don't be a bootlicker.

Same with working. I've worked at a few major tech companies. No matter how many rainforests they saved or houses they built. At some point, a bad decision will infuriate you, or a new directive will aim for profits and people lose their jobs.

They're not your friend.

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[-] Mrkawfee@lemmy.world 18 points 3 weeks ago

Listen or act like you're listening. People love the validation that comes with being given undivided attention. The opposite is also true.

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[-] randy@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago

You need to sleep.

[-] whotookkarl@lemmy.world 17 points 3 weeks ago

If you find yourself in a hole, first step is to stop digging.

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[-] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago

It's okay to ask for help.

[-] Joshi@aussie.zone 14 points 3 weeks ago

If you don't have time to do something right what makes you think you have time to do it twice?

Respect other people's time. When dealing with a busy person in a professional context;

  • Emails should be as short as possible while still conveying the needed information, don't make a busy person excavate the relevant info from somewhere near the middle of the fifth paragraph.
  • Whenever possible phrase a question in a way that can be answered in one word.
[-] sockenklaus@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago

Whenever possible phrase a question in a way that can be answered in one word.

That's a good one! I would also add: When asked a question, determine whether this question can be properly answered in one word. If possible do it!

This is particularly directed at my wife 💋

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[-] AlphaOmega@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago

Every failure is a success, if you learn from your mistakes

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[-] TheLameSauce@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago

Never take time for granted - expect you'll have less of it than you want or need.

It can really help with getting priorities straight - whether that's with work or with your personal life. Where is it exactly you want to spend the most valuable and limited resource you have? Your time?

[-] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 12 points 3 weeks ago

Everything in moderation; including moderation.

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[-] rainynight65@feddit.de 12 points 3 weeks ago

Sometimes good enough is good enough.

[-] witty_username@feddit.nl 12 points 3 weeks ago

Brush your teeth and floss

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[-] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Treat others as you would like to be treated

EDIT: AS NOT ARE. Fucking autocorrect

[-] Thavron@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago

Be excellent to eachother.

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[-] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 7 points 3 weeks ago

What if you’re a masochist? Wouldn’t it be better to treat others as they would like to be treated?

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[-] t_berium@lemmy.world 11 points 3 weeks ago

Don't be an asshole.

[-] InternetPerson@lemmings.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

Form your opinions critically, don't easily judge.

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[-] Iceblade02@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

If it sounds too good to be true - it probably is.

[-] Glytch@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

People are more helpful if you're nice to them.

[-] Ziggurat@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 weeks ago

Take your time, slow and steady is faster than quick and dirty

[-] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 9 points 3 weeks ago

Tell that to literally every company that produces anything.

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[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

Never tie your finances to that of a crazy person.

[-] AgainstTheGrain@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 weeks ago

Money is not the only medium of exchange.

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[-] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago

Never talk to the police. They are not there to help you.

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[-] PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 weeks ago
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[-] essell@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

Anyone who wants to tell you what is right and what is wrong does not have your best interests at heart, they have their own.

[-] dotslashme@infosec.pub 7 points 3 weeks ago

Nothing lasts. It goes for good days, but also bad days.

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[-] stoy@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 weeks ago

never tell the whole truth

This is dumb, and in many cases outright illegal.

If you are giving testamony in court you are required to tell the whole truth regarding the situation.

There are absolutely other times when you should tell the whole truth, so this statement is just dumb.

[-] untorquer@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Even in court you have to use some judgment to determine what the whole truth is, under what context, and to the extend of your memory or a reasonable expectation of enforcement of the idea.

There's also limitation with self incrimination/5th.

But as a generality, omitting information on socials, whatever registration form, etc... In everyday life is a reasonable practice for preserving privacy.

Being dishonest with friends & family is messed up tho.

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