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Kind of a vague question. But I guess anyone that responds can state their interpretation.

Edit: I guess I'm asking because everything I've learned about America seems to not be what I was told? Idk how to explain it. Like it feels like USA is one event away from ~~a civil war~~ outright corruption and turning into a D class country.

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[–] wersooth@lemmy.ml 51 points 6 months ago (1 children)

that's not a nation, just 4 corporations in a trench coat.

[–] schmorpel 12 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Okay but which nation isn't?

[–] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 17 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It depends. America is really big, so it needs more corporations to fill a coat.

The Uk is just 1.5 corporations in a trench coat

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] Skua@kbin.social 8 points 6 months ago

You seen their estates? They're the half corporation

[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 6 points 6 months ago (2 children)

France. Motherfuckers will go on strike at the drop of a hat. I wish, at least in Canada, we had the same kind of guts. Quebec is the closest but not nearly close enough.

[–] kurcatovium@lemm.ee 4 points 6 months ago

Ah, yes, strike, the national sport of France.

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[–] droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world 38 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I've said it before and I'll say it again. As someone from a country currently going through civil war, the US is nowhere near close.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Sorry you're going through that. Civil war is a tragedy no matter where or why.

The difference with America is, I think, that ours has already come and gone, but it never really did go away because we failed to stamp it out and rebuild properly. The rebellion was romanticized and whitewashed, sanitized and lionized. It's always said that the south lost the war and won the peace. It's probably never going to break out into a full-on fighting war like it was, but it exists very much as a bane on our social fabric, the integrity of our institutions, and our socioeconomics. America can never become as good as its advertising until it has reckoned with its deepest schisms.

To answer OP's question: The America I was raised to believe in (this one, to put it succinctly) doesn't exist. I emigrated with my family to the UK, my ancestral family home. Without America, me, my wife, and child probably could never have existed, coming together from different parts of the world as our families did. I'm glad of that, but we had to divest ourselves from its fate or remain complicit in tyranny and war. My process of disillusionment began before I was even fully grown, over 20 years ago, when the towers fell and I began to start asking questions about how we got to that point, and why we reacted as we did.

No matter where life takes me I'll probably always stand for the enlightenment ideals of that mythical America I was raised to believe in, but it exists for me as a platonic ideal, a sort of mathematical absolute that can only ever be badly approximated in real world terms.

[–] droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Every country is different.

I would say at least in the American civil war I know who to root for. In ours we've got a corrupt kleptocratic oppressive government turned military junta vs a genocidal militia headed by a rich and powerful warlord with ties to the Russian Wagner group. And oh by the way the militia was supported and enabled by the former regime as they used it to hold onto power but now it's turned against them. So it's like "pick your poison". I thank my lucky stars I don't live there but I also stopped following the news cause it's horrible.

I agree America has some serious problems but they're just not on the same level as the 3rd world.

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I hate to say it but your description could be two or three different countries in the world I can think of. I'm going to guess Sudan?

[–] droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago

I'm very sorry for what is happening to your country right now. Please stay safe and know that someone on the other side of the world is thinking about you and wishing you well.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That's awful beyond words. I don't know what's worse, the fact that you're caught in that, or that Wagner is so vilely prolific that what you've told me doesn't even narrow it down to the continent.

[–] droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

It's Sudan. War's been raging since April of last year. The war is between the Sudanese army and the Rapid Support Forces, a militia responsible for a ethnic genocides in Darfur years ago that are now being repeated.

Also I'm not caught up in that at all. Some extended family is. But I'm very very lucky to have been living somewhere else since I was 6.

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

I've heard a bit about it. That's a really messy one and it's really hard to see things getting better anytime soon.

[–] Eol@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 months ago

I kind of use that term lightly. I don't mean an outright war exactly.. I just mean organized corruption.

[–] NewNewAccount@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Were you still living there while tensions rose?

What sorts of things did you notice?

[–] droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

No. I haven't lived there since I was 6. I am extremely lucky.

I have family there and the only news I hear are bad. I'm also still a citizen of the country and I'm worried it might break apart and I'll end up stateless.

[–] BertramDitore@lemmy.world 27 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I’m continually disappointed that America doesn’t live up to what I learned about in civics class 30 years ago.

I have clear memories of sitting in class as a kid, asking the most basic questions about checks and balances, separation of powers, equality under the law etc. and being absolutely mesmerized by the topics. I remember thinking, “wow, I live there? I’m so lucky.”

When my teacher said “not even the president is above the law” I remember some other kid really trying to grasp the idea that every single person is supposed to be treated equally by the justice system, regardless of their family, job, or religion. It wasn’t a concept that came naturally to everyone.

It wasn’t until high school and college that I finally understood that these were just ideals that we talk about but don’t fully actualize. America is not the unicorn we think it is, but we’re great at lying to ourselves from a very young age. Howard Zinn was a big part of my waking up to reality.

That’s not to say we don’t strive for improvement, but when one of the two political parties is hell-bent on dismantling the administrative state, taking away bodily autonomy for more than half the population, reverting our ‘culture’ and laws to the 1800s, destroying our planet, discarding science, fetishizing killing-machines in daily life and warfare across the globe, and so much more regressive bullshit, we’re not really setting ourselves up to realize those ideals.

So yeah, America is a genuine country, but it’s not what it should be or what many people think it is.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 18 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The nation was built on ideals it wasn't practicing at the time. It has made the country a hypocrite, but it also gives guidance on what the country should be.

That there is a conflict between the ideals of the country and the current practice of those ideals is nothing new.

[–] Pronell@lemmy.world 11 points 6 months ago

This is a very good way to say it.

I love my country for its heart, its people, its ideals.

I mourn my country for its ignorance, its failures, and its systemic ills.

I hate my country for what it has done to most of the rest of the world in trying to 'supposedly' promote freedom and democracy.

It's a very complicated thing, patriotism. And it means nothing if you have it while your eyes are closed to reality.

[–] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 17 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

The most fundamental aspect of a nation is to be able to enforce your sovereignty against anyone that thinks you're not a "genuine nation" and the US probably does this better than most nations in the world.

So very genuine.

[–] Eol@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 months ago (4 children)

I guess that's not what I'm thinking either. It just feels like the "image" of America isn't what America actually is. Like there's a marketed campaign to make things seem better than they actually are.

[–] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

I mean, yeah stuff like "land of the free", "the land of opportunity" or "the american dream" are just slogans. But I think most people realise that by now.

[–] amio@kbin.social 3 points 6 months ago

"The American dream" was socioeconomic mobility, that shit is for commies these days.

[–] amio@kbin.social 5 points 6 months ago

That is just every country, countries would hardly try to look worse than they are.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

I don't think you can have a single image of America. What applies in one place doesn't apply somewhere else.

The Oregon Tourism department put together a wonderful campaign showing how different we are, you couldn't run this even across the border in Washington or Northern California:

https://youtu.be/doVV1a7XgyQ

https://youtu.be/KIC-XmyEfhI

https://youtu.be/qi4fGPPPmGA

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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I would say that the only thing that makes a nation genuine is that there is land that a government can control, defend and administrate.

Which also makes a lot of unrecognized nations still nations. And I'm fine with that. Taiwan is the most obvious example, but another would be Somaliland.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somaliland

[–] schmorpel 6 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I find nations problematic because they are units that are too large and therefore are controlled by groups not easily overseen and almost impossible to make accountable by the population.

The USA is not only a nation but an empire, which is like a nation with an integrated, violently imposed pyramid scheme.

If only we could find a way to organize into independent smaller units that federate into larger units and remain tolerant of the differences of the smaller units. Ironically that is what the USA seems to have attempted to do with their united states thing?

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Europe seems more successful on that front.

[–] Skua@kbin.social 2 points 6 months ago

To a degree, but recent years have definitely shown the flaws of the EU model as it currently is. I do have some faith that the EU can and will reform itself to overcome those problems, as it is still a very young entity in the grand scheme of things and is generally quite effective legislatively. Things like Brexit and Hungary's obstructionism show that it is currently far too easy for governments within the EU to scapegoat it for local problems, and the Syrian migrant crisis really tested the unity of it.

[–] bhmnscmm@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

The US tried that. It was called the Articles of Confederation. It didn't really work out.

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[–] Today@lemmy.world 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

A lot of that is politicians creating an 'us - them' situation and the news sensationalizing it because it makes people watch which is revenue. That said, the Republican party has gone completely off the deep end. I have some friends that are very worried. I have some friends who believe strongly enough in our system of checks and balances that they're not terribly worried, just irritated and frustrated.

ETA- also, they have to fill the 24-hour news channels with something, so everything is documented and shown over and over. That's why people on the right think crime is increasing and people on the left think racism is increasing. Both occur less, but are in your face more.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago

I guess it depends on what you mean by "genuine"?

The US, federally, is a single country, but socially and regionally, it's 50 separate states.

Nobody is going to confuse the overall social climate in my home state of Oregon with, say, Texas, or even our own neighbor, Idaho.

[–] LovableBastard 6 points 6 months ago

Yeah, we are a nation, but I can definitely see how we might look a bit dysfunctional from the outside.

First and foremost, remember that it is very rare for someone to write an article or post about things that are doing just fine. So you are mostly going to hear about disagreements or angry opponents or laws that are problematic. That kind of content gets more views.

I’ll also say that our 2 party system is practically designed to cause division and arguments. And it is always at its worst during presidential election years. But at the average citizen level, most of us are just going about our lives with no pent up malice for those who don’t see the world the same as us. We definitely have generalizations in our head about people from other areas of the country, but with a few radical exceptions, the vast majority of Americans view ourselves as a nation. Even if we don’t agree on a lot of the details.

[–] Funkmaster-Hex@kbin.social 5 points 6 months ago

I don't think you can get more genuine than a south Florida gator wrassler speed balling meth in his taint while voting against his own interests. Genuine does not equal intelligent or bestow leadership abilities.

[–] essell@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago

Genuine as in means what it says and does it?

Doesn't seem so. Seems like a lot of people are happy to twist the letter of the law in order to corrupt it's spirit and get their own way.

[–] Krono@lemmy.today 5 points 6 months ago

Civil war? Not even close.

Outright corruption? Business interests have always ruled the country, this is not new.

The bigger picture is that America is the most violent country since Nazi Germany. No other country comes close to our death toll. We spend $1trillion each year on violence and weapons- and those bombs must be dropped, because we need a reason to spend >$1trillion next year.

[–] Son_of_dad@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago

No. I saw American CIA death squads killing my people, funding one side of a civil war while Russia funded the other. America and Russia used us as pawns, America wanted to keep Russia out of this hemisphere, and destroying my country and people was an acceptable loss. After our country was gutted, we fled to safety and any way to find work to survive, so we went to the place that kept saying it was the best in the world, and we were called wet backs, and told we were job thieves. After all this, my country was rebuilt by American corporations, who now own everything. Now, half the American politicians who fought so hard to keep Russia out, are sucking Putin dick and continue to blame my race for all the ills of their own fucked up society. And the other half is self righteous, telling everyone else around the world how to behave and calling everyone else out, while forgetting all the shit their country did and never made amends for.

[–] Graphy@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago

I guess I'm asking because everything I've learned about America seems to not be what I was told? Idk how to explain it. Like it feels like USA is one event away from ~~a civil war~~ outright corruption and turning into a D class country.

Might be time to check how much doomscrolling you’re doing. You can drive from Miami to Seattle and you’ll just run into the same dude but with maybe a different flair.

The news and politicians try their hardest to make it look like we’re one single-issue vote bait away from war.

[–] Seasm0ke@lemmy.world 4 points 6 months ago

I think what you and many others here are hovering around is the American Civil Religion. A blend of quasi religious dogma and beliefs sold to us at a young age to form a foundation for the shared delusion of American exceptionalism.

Might sound crazy but check out the precepts below and then keep them in mind when you hear politicians and observe the rituals that reinforce American propaganda.

The next time you are asked to stand and put your hand over your heart for the pledge of allegiance... the moments of silence for first responders.. or you hear someone say "thank you for your service"' to some dude who at best rode a desk and at worse tortured people at a black site like gitmo. Nowadays there is less overt mention of god but the ideals themselves take the place. When I hear someone grateful for freedom I ask to do what? And if there is not more context its probably just a little prayer to uncle sam.

In a survey of more than fifty years of American civil religion scholarship, Squiers identifies fourteen principal tenets:

Filial piety (veneration of founding fathers in context)
Reverence to certain sacred texts and symbols such as the Constitution, the Declaration of Independence, and the flag
The sanctity of American institutions
The belief in God or a deity
The idea that rights are divinely given
The notion that freedom comes from God through government
Governmental authority comes from God or a higher transcendent authority
The conviction that God can be known through the American experience
God is the supreme judge
God is sovereign
America's prosperity results from God's providence
**America is a "city on a hill" or a beacon of hope and righteousness**
The principle of sacrificial death and rebirth
America serves a higher purpose than self-interests (AKA spreading democracy, liberating any county that nationalizes their resources [or has very good bananas)](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/1954_Guatemalan_coup_d%27%C3%A9tat)

He further found that there are no statistically significant differences in the amount of American civil religious language between Democrats and Republicans, incumbents and non-incumbents nor Presidential and Vice-Presidential candidates.[5]: 51–74 

Rotted everyones brains out

[–] grrk@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 months ago

Genuine in what sense? Like is it a 'real' country kind of genuine? I don't see why it wouldn't be.

[–] Ultragigagigantic@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

"All men are created equal"

Is slave state

Never has been

[–] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

Its a genuine nation in the sense it has sovereignty through projection of force and, agreement with other nations.

do you perhaps mean it wasn’t founded upon genuine ideals? As in it was founded “by the people for the people” but that might not necessarily be the case?

One event away from civil war

The previous civil war didn’t actually quash those who supported the confederacy - it even allowed traitors to be treated like war heros, and have statues put up. No other nation, as far as I am aware, celebrates their traitors in the same way they celebrate the victors.

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[–] Sabata11792@kbin.social 1 points 6 months ago

It may have been white picket fences and opportunity before my lifetime but I never seen it. Feels like its all been milked dry and you got to run the hamster wheel or starve.

The rich call the shots in government since they just bribe and whine till they get what they want.

Americans are all bark and no bite domestically (I know where the big evil worldwide). I don't think anyone has the balls to push a civil war. Even Trumps cultist folded after someone got shot attacking the capital.

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