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Anyone else feel like the reason why humanity doesn’t bother to fix important issues for a long time is because the people simply don’t care enough to group up and fix them. I mean when I try to educate folks on complex problems they often seem like they don’t want to discuss it and quickly defend the status quo saying “that’s just how things are”

But we can’t keep ignoring these issues because then it could delay necessary progress for thousands of years.

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[–] jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

The problem with answering that, is that there's no set standard for the appropriate amount of apathy so really however much there is, that's how much there should be and not too little or too much, that's just how apathetic humans are and there's nothing to compare against for judging appropriate levels. Why are we as apathetic as we are? In my opinion it's pretty similar to why climate change is so difficult to address, which makes sense as apathy is one of the biggest stumbling blocks to addressing it. In general, it's more difficult to energise, co-ordinate and sustain collective human effort on a large scale for issues that don't seem immediate, tangible, easily attributable, physically visible and where the solution and action to be taken isn't simple to understand, or the improvement simple to observe and also reasonably short term (or at least promises to be). Long term, society wide projects usually require more than just an appeal to better nature. People caring, people wanting to help each other, people wanting fairness or kindness or just treatment, as innate desires does work to motivate, but I think tends to work on mostly on the smaller scale, when it's for small in-groups, preferably people we've actually met and with immediate social pressures to reinforce these pro-social desires.

Human beings are capable of complex, difficult, awe-inspiring projects for "good" or "bad" but those tend to involve more diffuse motivations and more immediate rewards/incentives where those motivations are their most removed from the original instigators. Some few people involved might be motivated by altruism or something esoteric like an interest in science or a religious belief, but if their goals involve the masses it's usually going to mean filtering their motivation down through stakeholders, to careerists, money makers and then on down to people looking for subsistence and in many cases down to people who are enslaved and don't want to be killed or harmed and so work.

To top all that off there's the more obvious problem of the difficulty in keeping more and more people in bigger and bigger projects all on the same page about what to do, how to do it, or if we even want to do it. If the important issue you're thinking of is for example inequality, it's going to be very hard to get agreement on what that actually is, if that's even a good or bad thing, how we should deal with it or even if we should deal with it and many of the people in this debate will probably be passionate in their position. Complex "important" issues also tend to involve beneficiaries who would somewhat understandably not want to work against their own interests and so shape their environment to the best of their ability such that the easier thing to do is tolerate the issue making the near impossible mountain of getting human beings together for the greater good harder still by design. This theory maybe has some flaws, depending on how you frame the important issue. If for example the important issue were crime, you could argue that for the most part for most people it's fairly easy to get them not to just murder strangers on a whim or for some petty gain, even racists probably walk through an average day surrounded by people of many ethnicities and cultures but don't generally (with notable exceptions) need to be convinced or induced not to physically harm everyone they walk past and this tends to hold true on a larger scale not just the in-groups as I described, but as a rule of thumb, in my view I think this is basically how we operate. How much we care, how much we can muster courage, how much personal risk or resources or energy we can spare for manifesting ideals is usually proportional to the degree of direct impact they have upon us personally, how close we are to the people affected by an issue and how easy it is to identify and rectify the issue and also how long it will take and how often you'll have to act. I think you could probably draw direct, inversely proportional lines on a scale of how much apathy is shown and a declining slope on any of those measures. I suspect this is from our nature and biological origins, but this is not an assertion I can back up rigorously.

Finally, depending on the issue, sometimes it really is rationally better to tolerate an issue where all the solutions are bad and could make things worse. Tends to be difficult to reach consensus on when we're in such a situation.

[–] invertedspear@lemm.ee 8 points 11 hours ago

First a large enough group has to agree that something is a problem. Then they have to agree there is a solution. Let’s look at the problem of labor abuse in China. First, does everyone agree that it’s a problem? There are a significant number of people that think it’s fine or even a good thing. Some people think that everyone should be willing to sacrifice or be sacrificed for the greater good of the economy.

Okay so we manage to convince the shitheads that humans, even humans in China stuck assembling iPhones, have rights. What’s the solution? Not buy iPhones? Pay more? All out war against an oppressive regime? Countless other solutions exist, and until there’s agreement there, unlikely any of them will take hold.

The apathy is engineered, and can be easily furthered by injecting more disagreement on possible solutions by the people that were never really convinced slavery is bad.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago

It really makes me understand why we don’t see any advanced space faring civilizations as we look to the stars. Life just isn’t good at cooperation.

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 17 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Apathy is a coping mechanism

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago

And a surviving mechanism ; don't do anything (use up energy) if you don't need it like now.

Our brains are made for fruit picking and running in the jungle.

[–] moistclump@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

I’m. Tired. I wish I wasn’t.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

It certainly has become one for me at any rate..

I used to care a lot about everything, and now I’m just so so tired of trying. Apathy feels like a poplar grove; just keeps growing, spreading, and outcompeting everything else until it takes over and ruins everything, because it takes an absolute ton of energy control spread.

[–] kava@lemmy.world 22 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

most people are caught up in their own day to day lives. it's just the nature of things.

you have to go to work to pay your bills. your girlfriend wants to go out to dinner every once in a while. you have to go have dinner at your parents. you have to walk your dog. you have to brush your teeth, do your laundry. you have to figure out what you're gonna eat for dinner. should probably schedule that dentist appointment soon. need to do my taxes.

etc

really doesn't leave you that much time or energy to worry about the big problems of the world.

[–] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 6 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

That’s pretty accurate! I just wish they wouldn’t be so insistent on defending the status quo when it has problems like world hunger.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 14 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

"Put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others."

There's little to nothing I can do to fix world hunger, if I can't feed myself.

[–] tomi000@lemmy.world -3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

There are very few people in first world countries who cant feed themselves

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

There are also very few people who take everything extremely literally, yet here you are.

[–] tomi000@lemmy.world 0 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

I dont understand what youre saying then. You literally made an analogy for an emergency situation in which you make sure of your own survival first, then tend to others.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

I apologize for my snarky remark, but I'm not playing this game with you.

[–] FourPacketsOfPeanuts@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

The battle against global starvation is one of the few things that's actually going well...

https://assets.ourworldindata.org/uploads/2018/03/Famine-death-rate-since-1860s-revised-768x540.png

[–] Mr_Blott@feddit.uk 5 points 11 hours ago

The French - Would you like me to burn your fucking car?

[–] Mandy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, in every and all aspects.
Wars? Ukraine or Gaza.
Production? Chinas slavery
Sickness? 4 years ago.
Gaming? Triple a studios

Its everywhere to the point in hitting apathy against apathy myself

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

It's always been wars, always been slavery, always been sickness.

If anything, we have it much better than before. How do you think it was growing up during the world wars?

[–] Mandy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Those where just the easy ones out of the top of my head, we both know those are the the miniscule tip of the eisberg.

But dont you think you are just dismissing it yourself by saying we "always had those", sounds pretty apathetic to me.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 1 points 11 hours ago

Not to me, it just sounds normal. The reason people feel apathy is because there is a difference between expectation and reality that is very big for them.

It's the thought of "I need the world to be different for me to feel good" that is causing the apathy. You can change the thoughts on this and feel much, much better by being very grateful for having so much choice as a human being to find things you enjoy.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 3 points 10 hours ago

Either too much or too little depending on who we're talking about. You have the people who will amass a protest in the thousands because one person was mistreated and sometimes only a single person who will react at all when a thousand are mistreated. And people wonder why sociopathy exists.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 9 points 14 hours ago

I mean when I try to educate folks

Maybe that's one of the reasons they don't listen? I'm really sorry if what follows sounds a bit agressive, it's absolutely not what I wish, I just don't know how to say it more formally in English.

Sure, many people are very much not interested by anything that goes out of their usual ways but I would not be so certain it's the main issue at play, here.

I mean, why do you try to educate them? Are you their parents, or their teacher? Are you some kind of (moral/scientific) authority they (and we all) should listen to?

Personally, as one of those 'people' you're referring to, I tend to steer away from any person thinking they should educate others. Not that I refuse to educate myself and certainly not that I know all there is to know, far from it. It's just that in my experience, way too often, all what those self-proclaimed teachers teach is how great/admirable their little person is and, incidentally, more often than not why we should then rush to buy their latest book, or their whatever it is they're selling. Imho, there is little value in that kind of teaching and most people would be right to ignore it. I would even say that I wish more people would stop listening to those snake-oil vendors.

Once again, I'm not saying, you're such a person — how would I know, I don't know you — just that it's too frequent to not express some serious reserves when faced with it.

As tor the reason why people refuse to listen? Beside what I just said, I think most people already have enough things to deal with in their day to day lives, a lot of real shitty things, to not be willing to spend their free time listening to some 'teaching'.

Instead, you may want to show by example, by doing things and not by speech? Let them be surprised or intrigued by your very own actions and then, maybe, let them start a conversation by asking you question. They should be much more receptive if they do the first step, and you may get more positive results. Hopefully.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 10 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Gaza is all I need to know about humanity...

Never again until Israelis do a genocide then it is america, fuck yeah! Kill 'em all!

[–] DaseinPickle@leminal.space 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I mean the US has done a lot of genocide. Hitler took inspiration from how the US dealt with it’s native people. It’s not that strange that a nation founded on genocide and slavery is okay with that.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 4 points 13 hours ago

We at least we are coming around that genocide is cool when the good guys do it!

Decades of bullshit undone!

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 4 points 12 hours ago

pfft. what do I care. /s honestly I think its more the stress of survival because at least in the us even if you are doing pretty well its setup so a few bumps can have you completely fall into poverty. You pretty much have to be independently wealthy for it not to and even then medical things could take you out if your on the low end.

[–] classic@fedia.io 4 points 14 hours ago

It's a cross between our innate limitations, a societal system which works against us but continues from sheer momentum, and then by design by those who benefit. I don't think most people woke up and decided to live apathetic lives. We are chronically cognitively tasked

[–] ripripripriprip@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I think that this problem is similar to the monkeysphere: there are too many issues and problems for us to worry about, so we typically pick the problems that are closest to us and most solvable.

This is basically the same idea that someone else mentioned in this thread.

[–] Random123@fedia.io 3 points 14 hours ago

Even then, people tend to not even give a shit about local issues unless its something so obvious. People wont really give a shit about electing the right officials but will complain about their flammable water until someONE stands up to organize and rile up the politicians

Given that, i believe its something worse than simple overload of issues.

The issue is people are too distracted and living in their own world. Its not that they cant handle worrying about other issues its because people are living on autopilot

[–] FourPacketsOfPeanuts@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Maybe globalism was a bad idea? Maybe we should just create a lot of monkey spheres and each find our own local and relative level of happiness?

[–] Random123@fedia.io 2 points 13 hours ago

Nah i wouldnt blame globalism if anything id blame on the human tendency to take the path of least resistance. Where convenience trumps all

[–] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 2 points 15 hours ago

The shifting of manufacturing outside the region is a massive problem.

[–] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

It's a disgrace! Somebody should do something!

[–] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 2 points 14 hours ago

Someone should at least try to do something!

[–] RobotZap10000@feddit.nl 1 points 11 hours ago

Oh, certainly. Don't forget the equal parts of hatred!

[–] stinerman@midwest.social 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 2 points 14 hours ago
[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 1 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I did, but I don't care anymore.

...I'll see myself out. :P

In all seriousness I just don't know if I have it in me to keep paying attention to a trainwreck that I have no control over. I can only help my local community in some limited manner, anything outside of that all I can do is vote and yell at a "representative" that is bribed to not listen.

[–] bear@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 12 hours ago

You're not wrong. But do consider that those other people may know what works for them better than you think you do.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 0 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

It's from experience. Older people know this world well. Doesn't matter what you vote for, power stays with corporations.

Young people tend to believe you can change things by voting, which is naive and a bit cute.

I used to feel apathy until I realized there is one thing I can control - me. I can choose to do fun things, replace bad friends with new ones, learn new skills, grow as a person. I can put my phone down and read books and stop watching social media and porn. I can change who I am right now. And I will feel good from doing so.

The society will stay the same, but my perception of my life will be enjoyable, which is all I can actually do. You don't have power over anything except yourself. Once you get that through your head, you understand how to not feel apathy anymore.

[–] troglodytis@lemmy.world 0 points 13 hours ago
[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Covid broke our brains, literally.

Do y'all notice how people seem to have gotten more aggressive after covid.

Its like the Lead-Crime hypothesis, but Covid-Crime hypothesis

[–] Krono@lemmy.today 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

The statistically low levels of crime we are currently experiencing do not support your hypothesis.

Dude... We have a convicted felon and anti-constitution insurrectionist in the highest office of the US. Crime rate just went back up. Dont forget all the hate crimes he'll inspire around the country. Murders might have gone down, but the many instances of racial harassment, that are most likely going to be unreported, will skyrocket. Police aren't gonna make a report until you've been injured enough to end up in the hospital.