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Gender dysphoria feels unreal sometimes...

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 24 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

The actual reality of humanity. Everything we do is fucking weird if you overthink it, and I constanly have a feeling of surrealness when focused on the real world around me instead of lost in my own thoughts. Reality is too real to be real.

I dissociate a lot so that's probably why.

[–] MySkinIsFallingOff@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Imagine like.. a fully transparent bus full of people, just a bunch of people sitting on nothing in a group flying through the air. If that was normal, that would be... normal. We wouldn't question it, we'd just be so cool with that happening.

And that's the exact feeling I get a lot throughout my day.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 22 hours ago

Yes! Someone gets it! 🥹

[–] infinite_goop@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Hi - are you me? I’ve been so deep down this rabbit hole lately, regularly having little existential crises.

In my opinion, nothing should exist. But at the same time, nothing shouldn’t exist - because nothing is still something. The fact that we are here is both baffling and eerie.

My other hot take has been that this moment right now could be the only moment. Who’s to say that anything has ever happened? If we give context to an LLM, doesn’t that determine its reality? The more I research neural networks, the more it feels like the ‘big bag’ is more akin to flipping on the CPU, processing at the speed of light. But even then - if our existence isn’t real, whatever is beyond us is still something, which still shouldn’t exist.

It’s all very weird - makes me feel like nothing matters, but also that the only things which matter are the things that I make matter. And I’m just having this human experience. Very weird. Would not recommend.

/ramble

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[–] GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world 12 points 23 hours ago

That we are emotional animals that sometimes have logical thoughts. But we live in a society (at least in the west) where we have to pretend that we are logical animals that sometimes have emotions.

[–] hightrix@lemmy.world 9 points 23 hours ago

Social media

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

News and people giving a shit about sports ball.

[–] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It's fun to play and complete in your local sportsball league. It's exercise while being fun. Spectating is fun when watching a sport that you also play. Seeing the pros play is it properly lets you bring something back to your own game. I don't actually care who wins. That's tribalism.

Going to a "sports" bar to watch fat people get drunk and place bets makes no sense to me.

I also hate sports trivia. It's just celebrity trivia but for people to star on the field instead of in movies. If I get asked who won a particular award in a particular sport in a particular year, I would have absolutely no idea. If you aksed me to explain the "infield fly" rule, I've got that covered.

And yes, a full 8 minutes of the nightly news covering sports is just insane. I just don't care.

[–] Agrivar@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago

IMO, this is the most rational stance to have, regarding sportsball.

[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 89 points 1 day ago (3 children)

The expectation that people in office jobs can be productive for 8 hours per day.

Some days, like once every two years, you actually do it by accident; you come in, get shit done all day, and you get like a months amount of work done.

And then you get all nervous that someone might find out and set new expectations for you, so you have to kind of spread out the results of the work you did on that miracle day.

[–] NineMileTower@lemmy.world 36 points 1 day ago (9 children)

I am productive for less than an hour a day. I don't do anything. I have nothing to do. I drive for an hour each way to sit and do absolutely nothing so I can feed and house my family.

Some days I have to convince myself not to drive my truck into something at 85 mph. No person is meant to live like this.

[–] FrowingFostek@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago

The alienation of labor is real. Hang in there, we'll need you when things get better.

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[–] crunchrecalls@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well, I generally come in at least fifteen minutes late, ah, I use the side door–that way Lumberg can’t see me, heh–after that I sorta space out for an hour. I just stare at my desk, but it looks like I’m working. I do that for probably another hour after lunch too. I’d say in a given week I probably only do about fifteen minutes of real, actual, work.

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[–] dotslashme@infosec.pub 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The human body. We often take it for granted, but when you start looking at all the different things individually, you'll see how enormously complex the human body is.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

They found a new organ (nr 54 IIRC) just some years ago.

[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Mu desperate need to continue using arch.

[–] MicrondeMMMMMMM@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I read your hand lines, try nixos

[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 1 points 14 hours ago

Yeah if/when my system fails me i might!

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] card797@champserver.net 3 points 19 hours ago

It's exhausting.

[–] SouthFresh@lemmy.ml 46 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] superkret@feddit.org 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Gas stations that sell booze

[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 5 points 23 hours ago

Drive throughs at liquor stores

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[–] vermyndax@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

My bosses and their decisions.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 103 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I work in a manufacturing facility where the assemblers, mechanics, machinists, and technicians, are unionized. My white collar, not unionized colleagues simultaneously express jealousy about the benefits the union members get while also saying they shouldn't exist while also complaining their own salaries are too low and not keeping up with inflation.

My dudes, this is what unions are for. If I worked one of the covered jobs, I would join the union in a heartbeat.

Join them, don't try to tear them down.

[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 46 points 1 day ago

Crazy how union participation peaked in the 50s with 1/3 of the workforce in one, at a time where a man without advanced education could provide for a wife, multiple kids and own a house.

Crazy that people aren't rioting in the streets.

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[–] EleventhHour@lemmy.world 163 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Donald Trump is not only running for president again, he might actually win.

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[–] Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world 115 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Stupid doctors. Starting in the medical field, I had this notion that a doctor is this kind of universally intelligent, best-of-humanity kind of person.

Some of them are.

But some of them are absolute dumbasses who happen to have a photographic memory that carried them through med school... Like, full blown trumpanzee, falls for conspiracy theory bullshit, superstitious nutjob, knuckle-dragging, slack-jawed idiot.

It shouldn't be possible. No one who makes it through med school should be mentally capable of instantly plummeting to the rock-bottom of stupid as soon as they step foot outside of their field of study (which fortunately most of those types deliver at least passable quality of care).

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[–] philpo@feddit.org 3 points 1 day ago

Boomer Patients that are not chronically ill but just get into the healthcare system for a rather small malady.

They.are.the.worst.

[–] Pyflixia@kbin.melroy.org 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Retail stores.

Fuck your shopping 'experiences'. People want to buy shit and get out. I saw at Wal-Mart recently these tables for 'Customer Appreciation Day'. Fuck that shit.

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