IMO there's no such thing as "on Lemmy" in general, unless you mean this specific instance of Lemmy. But anyway, this problem of balance seems to be an eternal philosophical question which may be never solved once for all. Each instance chooses its own combination of censorship and freedom.
Also, wondering about the following:
- why the client is imitating WhatsApp?
- why there's no system tray on Linux and I can even remember a discussion that it's not needed?
- why the desktop app top menu looks like a menu of a foreign wrapper?
For web: better theming, for app: i18n, for both: much smoother subscription to other instances.