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[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 45 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)
[–] mjhelto@lemm.ee 19 points 6 months ago

Yeah, but a noticable increase in inappropriate jean applications!

[–] sonori@beehaw.org 8 points 6 months ago

I have just the video to fix that, - Dosh Doshington

[–] Fake4000@lemmy.world 31 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Content diversity seems like it slowed down. Back when the Reddit exodus happened about of niche communities were created. A lot of them have been abandoned now.

Lemony is still good as it’s tech and privacy centric (which I love). But the excess of US related news, furry stuff, commie/cappie arguments are everywhere. You can always block communities and instances but it gets tiring after some time.

[–] NaClKnight@kbin.run 27 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I think this sort of unfulfilled promise has been the biggest obstacle of my full scale adoption of a reddit alternatives.

As a non-typical Lemmy user (No interest in privacy, piracy, Linux, FOSS, Web Dev, SW Dev, Veganism, or discussing political theory with strangers online) finding active communities in topics i am interested in (basketball, football, hip hop and rap, martial arts, boxing, mma, PC building, relationships, kink, and the specific humor and nuance that comes with being a Black person on the internet) has been a struggle.

Many of those communities have two people or less posting in them or don't exist at all.

People are talking here but not about things i wanna discuss and that's disappointing so i have a hard time "sticking" if that makes sense

[–] Fake4000@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That's true. There are a lot of fringe types of users here that aren't interesting (weed, curries, conspiracy stuff, etc). General average Joe discussions aren't much here tbh.

I do enjoy privacy and Foss discussions, but another issue here is that alot of posts are either reposts by users, or bots. You can check that same post on Reddit and you will see a lot of comments around it. Some positive and others negative but still higher in numbers.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I never bother with "general" opting for the boring special interests I have like comic books and tech stuff, so I haven't looked for one, but do we not have a "the lounge" or "off topic" like every forum type thing in history? If not, we should totally make one I guess. If there is one, post in it a bunch and help it grow!

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[–] JimboDHimbo@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 months ago (5 children)

I became the typical Lemmy user with interests in the topics you dislike because of the nature of the reddit migration, but I have to agree with the lack of skinfolk humor. It's kind of a bummer.

[–] NaClKnight@kbin.run 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yeah i hear you. Reddit was white on average but Lemmy/Kbin feels like baby powder on top of fresh snow

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

So white someone will make a trending post on a Linux memes community about "coonfigers" and no one has a problem with it.

Honestly looks like it sailed right over everyone's head too. I guess that's a good thing?

[–] JimboDHimbo@lemmy.ca 4 points 6 months ago

Bruh I saw that shit, but I didn't feel like walking into the comment section to fight that day.

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[–] Blaze@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

A lot of them have been abandoned now.

Indeed, we should definitely consolidate

[–] Fake4000@lemmy.world 6 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Consolidation is another thing. There are many communities that are similar on different instances, firefox for example.

Would be nice if lemmy supports something like multi Reddit with the option of hiding duplicate posts.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

There are many communities that are similar on different instances, firefox for example.

Sometimes they are identical and should merge, sometimes due to the specific audience of the instance, it's better to keep them separate.

I wouldn't suggest merging !movies@lemmy.world and !movies@hexbear.net

Would be nice if lemmy supports something like multi Reddit with the option of hiding duplicate posts.

Mbin does support multireddits, but this doesn't seem to be interesting enough for people to switch to it (while Lemmy communities are fully accessible from Mbin)

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 months ago

Yeah, frankly the fact that they're separate is sort of the point, if .ml and .world both have X, and you get banned from one (or hate one's mods, or rules, or defeds, or...), you can still use the other. I like it this way personally.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

The Star Trek memes community couldn't even stay together, it splintered under the pettiest nerd drama I've ever seen

[–] Ashtear@lemm.ee 20 points 6 months ago

Seems things have shaken out (for now) regarding defederation, including less chatter about Threads than there was. I don't anticipate much change on that until the next big influx of users, whether it's people coming in directly through Lemmy/Kbin/Mbin or a new player joining the Fediverse.

Other than that, I've just seen steady growth in my communities.

[–] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 19 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (4 children)

Influx of libs. It's a sign of success for the platform, but holy fuck lemmy.world posters are annoying

".ml keeps saying things I don't like, defederate!"

[–] lemmyreader@lemmy.ml 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Hmm... Today I learned that lemmy.world is the biggest Lemmy instance.

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[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

What sort of things out them as "libs"?

[–] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Hmm. Let me check my inbox. One lib is complaining about leftists. Another is talking about "harm reduction" in the context of genocide

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[–] exanime@lemmy.today 18 points 6 months ago (2 children)

The level of aggressive comments....

It's devolving quickly into Reddit. Everything is either black or white, dog shit or a miracle... No nuance

Increasingly people attack people instead of ideas when commenting

[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 12 points 6 months ago

Please report aggressive / toxic comments as a rule 2 violation here. We can and should do better than reddit when it comes to being respectful and kind to each other.

[–] JCPhoenix@beehaw.org 2 points 6 months ago

I think it's worse here than on reddit when it comes to this. Redditors these days (*takes out the walker and cane*) are shitty, but I feel like I'm somewhat insulated from a lot of it due to where I lurk/participate on reddit. But on Lemmy, I see it pretty much everywhere. Smaller userbase compared to reddit, so maybe the rudeness is more visible.

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 18 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I'm getting banned less since moving to Beehaw?

So for me it's personal growth.

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 23 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 15 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I've no idea how offensive you are man, but made me laugh

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 8 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I'm not, really. I admit I cannot tolerate people who make political ideales their whole identity, and when pointing out the hypocrisy I'm often put upon the wall as an example to those who may question authority.

That, and maybe one or two fart jokes too many.

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 6 points 6 months ago

Yeah it is an ongoing issue I'm having with lemmy as a whole too, the overmoderation seems heavier handed then Reddit sometimes

[–] lemmyreader@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 months ago

That, and maybe one or two fart jokes too many.

What? Fart jokes? Blocked! /j

[–] Liz@midwest.social 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I would assume it's because you're now blind to the communities that enjoy banning people. Beehaw was pretty clear that they want to keep things nice.

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 3 points 6 months ago

Exactly, and most of the the negativity is gone, a lot less anger-bait to browse through, and waaaay fewer extremists & shills.

Basically what my mental health needed.

[–] infotainment@lemmy.world 17 points 6 months ago

Seems about the same?

[–] Niiru@feddit.de 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

More bot content, spam and paid agenda posting from what I can see in /r/all or how ever the aggregation of all instances is called

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 8 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Do you have an example of paid agenda posting? I haven't noticed anything that would suggest that. I've noticed agenda posting but it's most likely purely passion.

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[–] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Redditors have been showing up, and lemmy mods are behaving more and more like the very thing redditors wanted to leave reddit for.

[–] Liz@midwest.social 5 points 6 months ago

People with unchecked power being unreasonable! I'm shocked! Shocked!

[–] Decency8401@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Well feddit.de is down for quite a while now.

[–] lemmyreader@lemmy.ml 6 points 6 months ago

Only the front-end of feddit.de has serious problems, right ? Why would the maintainers not run another front-end (e.g. Elk) on the same server and redirect their broken front-end link to that as work-around for web users ?

[–] Woozythebear@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago (8 children)

Lots of support for a genocide, thought this place was better than Reddit.

[–] Decency8401@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I don't have an account long enough but browsed through the different instances enough and I've never seen anything about genocide.

They're talking about Gaza, fam. Specifically, continued funding for Israel and babbling about "realpolitik"

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