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Does anyone else text someone else in your own home if they are in another room? Am I just too lazy to go talk to them? Are you like me?

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[–] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 51 points 9 months ago (3 children)

In the olden days we would just scream at the top of our lungs to talk to people in other rooms. I feel like texting captures the lazy spirit without the chaos.

[–] soviettaters@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago

We continue to yell. Tradition is important in my family.

[–] Salvo@aussie.zone 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I’m trying to train the rest of our household to use our voice assistant intercom feature.

One of the kids hates that the intercom interrupts whatever she is doing, as far as she is concerned, she ignores everyone else and uses her noise-cancelling earbuds for a reason.

Before anyone asks, I have already trained them to not say anything personal within earshot of the home assistants.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 17 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

I have already trained them to not say anything personal within earshot of the home assistants.

Yikes. Prisoner in their own home?

[–] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

It's a big reason I don't want those things I'm my home. I know our phones are already doing it, but I don't have to allow additional snooping mechanisms.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Exactly right. There's a bit of evidence that something like an Amazon device is worse about it than phones are too. I'm too lazy to go look it up but I'm pretty sure Amazon is always recording and storing human voices, or at least was at one time.

[–] ____@infosec.pub 1 points 9 months ago

The local utility co tried to give me a free google thermostat. Nooooope.

Three decades ago, as a kid, the electric co-op put a device on our water heater that would limit energy to that specific device at times of high load. That was sensible, and had zero listening capabilities. It’s also as close as I want to get to (commercial) voice assistants.

[–] Xariphon@kbin.social 27 points 9 months ago (1 children)

My wife and I do this, mostly because we're both often doing stuff in the house, but also want to send each other cat pictures, which don't demand an immediate response.

[–] PixTupy@lemmy.ml 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah me and my husbands messages are mostly memes and cat pictures.

[–] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Us too. Inappropriate memes that make us laugh. Avoids the "can I see" from the kids.

[–] linearchaos@lemmy.world 12 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If we're not in the same room, we use an encrypted messenger. We do DMs and have a group chat.

If we're in the same room but don't want the kids to hear, we'll message too. If you ask out loud if we should get pizza, a no would prompt a mutiny.

We tried to use assistant broadcast, but it fails everytime someone turns the volume down on one. They need to fix the volume for broadcasts.

[–] dan@upvote.au 4 points 9 months ago (2 children)

They need to fix the volume for broadcasts.

They have a lot of long-standing bugs but it seems like Google Assistant isn't really being prioritised by Google at the moment. They're actually removing a bunch of features: https://www.zdnet.com/home-and-office/work-life/google-assistant-will-lose-these-17-features-in-the-next-few-weeks/

Broadcasts via Google's API also fail if the network has IPv6 enabled. That's been broken for years and I doubt it'll ever be fixed.

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[–] shyguyblue@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago

Bring TP to guest bathroom please!

[–] tacotroubles@lemmy.world 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Only when there's a cat sleeping on someone's lap

[–] PrincessLeiasCat@sh.itjust.works 2 points 9 months ago

This is the correct answer.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'm pretty sure everyone is like someone out there. Except maybe that guy from that other post today who like, decapitated his father and put it on YouTube. I don't know if there's anybody like that guy.

[–] JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee 4 points 9 months ago

Oh my god you are so right.

[–] RovingFox@infosec.pub 8 points 9 months ago

My girfriend will text me when I am doing something noisy and she doesn't want to get out of bed.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

if you've got stairs and some shitty acoustics, yeah definitely

[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

Yes. Yes. And yes.

[–] Dhrystone@infosec.pub 6 points 9 months ago

I do, but it’s because my wife works from home and spends three quarters of the day with the chick cave door closed doing teams meetings. Generally my msgs will be “want brunch/coffee/pastries?” etc.

[–] Vaggumon@lemm.ee 6 points 9 months ago (4 children)

Technically not texting, but we have a Home Discord group chat.

[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 3 points 9 months ago

We do this, too. Really convenient.

[–] alfenstein@beehaw.org 1 points 9 months ago

We have a Signal group chat, works really well for all kinds of things. Like "Dinner is ready" or "is anybody home?"

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[–] paysrenttobirds@sh.itjust.works 5 points 9 months ago (3 children)

My kid prefers to be texted for dinner. Knocking is iffy because of the ear buds.

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[–] Thisfox@sopuli.xyz 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I do, and he reads them days later and apologises.

Now that he is overseas on a business trip he reads them all immediately, but apparently in-house is not an option.

[–] ____@infosec.pub 2 points 9 months ago

That’s actually kinda adorable.

[–] solitaire@infosec.pub 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I've never done it in my own home, but I had a coworker I'd text with even though his desk was an arms length away from mine. Mostly because it could be hard to tell when either of us was on or about to make a call.

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

If they're in the same room, obviously I'll just speak to them. If they're in the next room over and the door is open, I'll still speak, just louder. But if they're two rooms away or upstairs, I'll text.

[–] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I use Google Home Assistant to broadcast messages, e.g. "dinner's ready"

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago
[–] T0RB1T@lemmy.ca 3 points 9 months ago

Depends on the size of the home I suppose. Tiny bungalow? Yeah, a little weird. Three-story? Not weird at all IMO.

[–] blargerer@kbin.social 3 points 9 months ago

I've been in large groups and texted with the person I was sitting next to.

[–] ____@infosec.pub 3 points 9 months ago

All the damn time. If I’m I. The same room and we’re both awake, I speak, but if she’s asleep or I’m working and can’t escape from a vid meeting…. Signal it is.

For various reasons, my memory isn’t worth a damn, so there’s an added benefit of “yes, I told my wife that important thing” in the history

We live on one floor, with a bedroom, an office, a living room, and a kitchen. It’s definitely not that I’m too lazy to take the ten or twelve steps across the house lol

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

All the time. Usually because I am working from home and my husband has the dog snoring in his lap and doesn't want to disturb him. Or I'm piled into bed with the dogs and don't want to create a stir by getting up. Dogs govern a lot of my time lol.

[–] willya@lemmyf.uk 2 points 9 months ago

Generally announcing on the Alexa’s.

[–] carl_dungeon@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

All the time

[–] thorbot@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

What’s it like living in a giant mansion where you can’t hear each other everywhere?

[–] JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee 1 points 9 months ago

More like going deaf, old, and getting harder to hear in the same room even much less the same house! Texting is easier sometimes but maybe I am lazy too. Especially if someone is outside in the yard.

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[–] sag@lemm.ee 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] ____@infosec.pub 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

When you could express the same sentiment in a few keystrokes? Nah, I’ll text lol

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[–] Devi@kbin.social 1 points 9 months ago

I often send people pictures or articles on whatsapp while I'm talking to them, it's just easier than going over to show them my phone. I definitely text if someone is out of speaking distance if it's not urgent, stuff like "do you want X for dinner?", that way they can get to it when it's convenient.

[–] noisypine@infosec.pub 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I have Philips hue lights throughout the house. My son is green, my daughter is purple and red is both. Sometimes I'm lazy and just turn the lights on and off instead of changing the color.

[–] SecretPancake@feddit.de 2 points 9 months ago

Colors for what?

[–] JCPhoenix@beehaw.org 1 points 9 months ago

When my brother and I lived together, we definitely texted each other, either via text or Discord. When we only lived in a 2bdr apartment. If we were in each of our rooms, with the doors open, we could easily just talk really loudly if we wanted to. But we typically had headsets on.

If I'm visiting my family, if there's something I want to show them on the computer, I'll often just drop it into our family Discord. Easier that way.

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