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...sometimes it does feel like this.

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[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 42 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It’s worth noting that some users might be attracted to Lemmy due to its smaller, more niche communities and the sense of belonging that comes with being part of a smaller, specialized group. Others might be drawn to Lemmy’s technical aspects, such as its use of ActivityPub and its potential for customization and modification.

Some users might also be deterred from Lemmy, but please do not let this distract you from the fact that in 1998, The Undertaker threw Mankind off Hell In A Cell, and plummeted 16 ft through an announcer's table.

[–] Hobo@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I haven't seen this shit in years. I used to browse reddit and that shit would always crack me up. This one time I was browsing at like 3AM and everyone was asleep. I laughed so hard I woke my little brother up. My dad came out of his room super pissed off. He just glared at me and walked straight out to the garage. When he came back he beat living shit out of me with a set jumper cables. Anyway, I stopped browsing reddit late at night after that.

[–] Sundial@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago

Found you Roger Simon.

Thanks for the blast from the past lol.

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[–] buttfarts@lemy.lol 3 points 1 day ago

sniff... the good ol' Lemmy switcheroo

[–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 3 points 1 day ago
[–] IMNOTCRAZYINSTITUTION@lemmy.world 51 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

most of the toxicity I've experienced on lemmy has been from established users so idk.. but I should add that it's way less toxic than reddit so far

[–] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 27 points 2 days ago (4 children)

It's gotten pretty bad on the politics front lately. It's like an entirely different community now compared to last year

[–] IMNOTCRAZYINSTITUTION@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I hope it dies down after the election but I'm not getting hopes up

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[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Overall it's less toxic than Reddit, as evidenced by how many people were lurkers there but here actually feel comfortable enough to open up and contribute.

I note that you are on Lemmy.World, which blocks some of the most well-known trolling instances. That indeeds helps a ton, though means that the experiences of someone who joined e.g. lemm.ee instead are going to be quite different.

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Blocking is key. Once I started blocking some communities, my Lemmy experience got a lot better.

[–] devfuuu@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's just less people. People will always be people wtv they are.

[–] Zementid@feddit.nl 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Less focus by Russian bot farms to steer the discussion.

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[–] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Bro I’m not toxic fuck you

Fight me

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[–] ALilOff@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As an ex-Reddit I get it, I was a refugee of Apollo.

Still have that legend on my phone and is now a memorial of what used to be.

[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 134 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Hey, we left cause of the enshitification of Reddit itself, toxicity of the users was always part of the package deal.

[–] ptz@dubvee.org 105 points 3 days ago (13 children)

As a Reddit refugee myself,I can't disagree with that. But I will clarify that there's generally two kinds of Reddit Refugees, though:

  • The kind that got fed up with Reddit and wants to be part of something better
  • The people who were banned from Reddit and think this is some kind of safe haven to continue acting on their worst impulses that got them banned elsewhere.

The meme is largely referencing the latter.

[–] andrew_bidlaw@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 days ago (2 children)

to continue acting on their worst impulses

I feel seen.

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[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I hope I'm in the first category. This place has less people but better engagement.

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[–] renzev@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Yes exactly. When reddit pulled that api pricing shit, I just got up and left. I came here expecting shitposts, braindead "hot" takes, piss-poor reading comprehension, and americans acting like they're the only country in the world. I got exactly what I expected and I couldn't be more satisfied, 10/10 would nuke my reddit account again.

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[–] Allero@lemmy.today 38 points 2 days ago (3 children)

We often talk about toxic newbies, but sometimes we don't pay enough attention to how we ourselves changed as a result. Make them feel welcome, and see how much Lemmy changes back.

If you (yes, you, reader) are new to Lemmy, have my wholehearted "Welcome"! Hugs on demand, cookies right there, make yourself comfy :)

Avoid politics-oriented communities unless toxicity is your thing. Start with any instance (most likely you chose lemmy.world as your starting point?), but explore others and what they have to offer. You can even be on several of them if that's your thing! Enjoy!

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I was here 2y before the exodus, it's absolutely not just the newbies. Maybe some other -ies...

I for one welcome the shit out of the newbies, I'm thankful to have them and want more, and for them to bring their niche interests with them. They help filter some of the toxicity out.

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[–] TheFonz@lemmy.world 57 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Yea no. Try having a nuanced discussion on any (insert heated topic here) on Lemmy and watch the labels fly out faster than the ejaculate of a post pubescent 15 year old.

[–] tee9000@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

It seriously cannot get any worse. Bring on users from any platform. Lemmy sucks and i thank the mods of smaller subs that post diligently about enthusiast topics to add content that isnt dystopian sad sack circlejerk

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[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

It's easy to forget how bad it can get.

One day I wandered into /r/kotakuinaction over some linked comment on the Tomb Raider animation, and the Fallout TV series, and... yeah. I remembered.

And that's a pretty mild example.

All I have to say is fuck Reddit mods.

[–] fsxylo@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Block instance and block community buttons are your friends.

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[–] KingJalopy@lemm.ee 70 points 3 days ago (10 children)

You'll find that anywhere. Not just on the Internet, either. Literally, everywhere.

[–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

High school never ends.

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[–] 8000gnat@reddthat.com 11 points 2 days ago

tfw somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep

[–] Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I ended up getting permabanned from reddit for saying that Lebanese people don't blame all their problems on Israel, just the the problems they do deserve blame for.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

I got banned a few years ago for criticising Israel's genocidal rhetoric.

[–] tomalley8342@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago (2 children)

A lot of users here are not Reddit refugees, they are Reddit rejects.

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[–] dylanmorgan 43 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Hopefully the absence of an algorithm pushing engagement at all costs will dispel some of it.

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[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 45 points 3 days ago (14 children)

It took me a couple months to fully leave years of bad reddit habits behind. I didn’t realize how deeply ingrained they’d become. The toxicity had gradually snuck up on me.

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[–] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Head over.to Hexbear and say you like south park or something. You're welcome.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

I may be crazy, but even I'm not that stupid.

[–] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 6 points 2 days ago (3 children)

wait it's bad to like south park now?

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[–] N0body@lemmy.dbzer0.com 34 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I think any real user from Reddit that isn’t a bot is an asset these days. I hate Reddit as much as the next person, but giving people shit for coming from there to here feels hypocritical.

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[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

People will be toxic no matter what. I don't think making prospective new users feel unwelcome is a good idea when we'd like to see some growth.

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[–] TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

eternal "eternal september" september

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