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I'll start off with one, Being upset about a breakup that happened hundreds of years ago.

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 1 points 2 minutes ago

All the comments assume everybody else isn't also immortal. I forget the title and author but there's an old sci fi story (or novel?) about a future where everybody lives for centuries, and they've found that the brain only retains a certain amount of experience. They have long careers, get tired of doing whatever, re-educate and do something else, or even have families they eventually forget about. A couple of the characters are surprised to find out they used to be married like a century earlier. To me that seems vaguely like reincarnation, and I kind of don't hate the idea. I really don't see any downside to that scenario, even if you just go on forever.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Life will pound you into an uncaring jaded disinterested unloveable husk of a being after too many emotional scars from losing loved ones, too much of seeing humanity make the same mistakes, and too much watching the knowledge you gained turned irrelevant.

Or, life will beat into you an uncanny ability to converse and relate to others, even if fleetingly.

Watch The Man from Earth.

[–] FryHyde@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 hour ago

Discovering the upper limits to what the human mind can retain and just constantly forgetting all the shit you used to find important.

[–] BlueSquid0741@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I don’t think you’d remember a break up from hundreds of years ago, let alone be upset about it.

[–] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 4 points 2 hours ago

On one hand, you have eternity to come to grips with everything you've done. On the other hand, it might take eternity to come to grips with everything you've done.

Seeing all of your friends and family die, knowing you'll never stop missing them.

Having the perspective of centuries. Seeing society make the same mistakes over and over again because they forget, but you never do. It would drive me mad. Already does, considering I have the ability to, and have, read history. I just imagine living it over and over to be tedious.

[–] AnnaFrankfurter@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

I'll say no one can truly know. Unless you are yourself immortal

[–] hperrin@lemmy.world 24 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (2 children)

Basically all of the time you’re alive will be after the heat death of the universe, where you will be floating in space, with nothing to do, nothing to see, nothing to experience. Complete darkness, complete silence, in a complete vacuum, for eternity. Every other particle in the universe is forever out of your reach. You know that you will have nothing forever. You will never see, hear, or touch anything again, for all of time, which will never end. The trillions of years that preceded your float through the void fade into a distant memory as you outlive twice as much time, four times as much, a trillion-trillion times as much, and infinitely more.

[–] mobiuscoffee@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 hours ago

I wrote a story that features such an entity and what was interesting about it to me was how even the slightest glimmer of life beyond their void would lead to an all-consuming desire to experience "living" again.

[–] pH3ra@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 hours ago

So just my normal day?

[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 3 hours ago

You know how the curse of pet ownership is that you will almost certainly outlive them?

That, but with everyone you love

[–] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)
[–] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 4 hours ago

Being eaten by sea anemones, tuna, sharks, swordfish, sea turtles, penguins, and other jellyfish.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turritopsis_dohrnii#Predation

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 hours ago

If other people are also immortal, the awkwardness of all of them eventually becoming your exes

[–] mobiuscoffee@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 hours ago

One of my books features an immortal protagonist and I've as such thought about this quite a bit. More than the answers already provided here, what I found interesting as a writer was the balance I needed to find between making an immortal detached from mortal values while still being engaging to mortal readers.

Said as a pithy question, if you can outlive everyone's decisions and mistakes, what would it take to make you do anything at all?

[–] HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone 16 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

That old person feeling of no longer being with "it", and what's "it" now being strange and scary probably compounds over the centuries.

[–] LavenderDay3544@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

And this is why elder vampires are so vengeful.

[–] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 hours ago

I absolutely love the scene in "Interview with the Vampire" where Lestat is found hiding away in a room, distraught by all the creations of modern civilization.

[–] z3rOR0ne@lemmy.ml 13 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

Given a long enough time frame, the vast majority of an immortal life would be spent buried beneath something or floating in the void of space. Think about it, you outlast planets and stars. When those go dark, but you don't die...nothing to do but float in space.

You might counter that with, "well yeah, but eventually I'd find other sentient life forms and/or people again.” And sure, maybe, but that wouldn't last as long as you...and then you're just alone floating in space again, for the vast majority of your life. The only thing to look forward to, since you will outlast everything, is the end of time itself.

[–] RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I think there is a clear difference between being immortal and being indestructible. I would think if your planet breaks apart you'd probably die with it being crushed or whatever. Also always unclear if being immortal means you don't need to breathe air.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I think a good author makes it explicit.

Here's a sci-fi web novel I read years ago, where a couple of the characters end up being immortal in different ways, and in one case they show exactly how far that can go (in the context of the story) even without invoking heat death.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Think about it, you outlast planets and stars. When those go dark, but you don't die...nothing to do but float in space.

LOL, that's just the beginning -- only on the order of 10^12^ - 10^14^ years. After that, you're going to be waiting around for proton decay (10^36^ - 10^43^ years), all the way up to 10^10^120 years* for the final heat death of the universe.

(* Anybody know how to get Lemmy markdown to do nested superscripts?)

[–] toototabon@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)
[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 7 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Does your consciousness evolve to Godhood, and you reach back beyond time and create the universe which birthed you?

[–] Elaine@lemm.ee 6 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

You join the Q Continuom.

[–] z3rOR0ne@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 hours ago

The fantastic animated show, Pantheon explores that very idea at the very end of its second and final season.

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 10 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Without getting into the heat death of the universe and all that, I can think of something that happens much, much sooner. I'm only middle aged and I already don't like where the world is going. Can you imagine being centuries, or eons past the era you identified with? Can you imagine how insufferable young people and old people alike would seem when you have centuries worth of life experience and wisdom? Can you imagine a horde of little edge lords on the internet confidently yet incorrectly telling you about the signing of the Declaration of Independence, when you were there when it was signed?

[–] vis4valentine@lemmy.ml 15 points 7 hours ago

Knowing the answer to some of history's biggest mysteries, because you were there, but being unable to speak about them because, 1, that would expose you, 2, nobody would believe you either way because nobody expects you to be THAT old.

Also, it is already frustrating seeing kids being dismissive or denying events that you yourself have lived. Imagine being thousands of years old and seeing so much shit, but those events are rarely retold, forgotten, or straight up denied by conspiracies or future governments that won't admit their fault on it.

[–] Crumbgrabber@lemm.ee 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Having to constantly find new hiding places for the blood chalice, and keeping up with all the latest scanning methods so you can develop countermeasures. Your secret is never truly safe.

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

I would assume that over centuries or eons, you'd amass enough wealth and power to comfortably circumvent those sorts of things. If you're not running the world after living for 2000 years, then you're a ley-who-say-her.

[–] Octospider@lemm.ee 34 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Depends on the type of immorality. Do you continue to age? If no, what age do you stop? Eventually the universe will die. So what happens to you then?

It might be fun for a while. Maybe even a long while. But that fun will be gone in an instant compared to the trillions and trillions of years you will float in a dark dying universe of nothing.

[–] Ptsf@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Nothing forever will feel oh so fast when you lose any frame of reference.

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[–] crazyminner@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 hours ago

Not being able to kill yourself.

[–] shoulderoforion@fedia.io 28 points 9 hours ago (4 children)

immortality doesn't guarantee perpetual health, you're alive, but so broken and sick you wish you could die, but you can't

[–] Today@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

My knees hurt already. I can't imagine living with constant aging forever until you're just a crumpled pile on the ground and then it still goes on.

[–] 50MYT@aussie.zone 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah this answer.

Imagine being immortal and you get stuck somewhere.

Like in a giant land slide.

[–] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 6 points 6 hours ago

Alive, but stuck in nutty putty cave for eternity

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[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 37 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Being asked your birthdate in order to view a game on Steam, and the year dropdown not going back far enough.

[–] markstos@lemmy.world 14 points 9 hours ago

Date pickers that assume you have a 5 digit birth year.

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago

Getting imprisoned for thousands of years unable to get out.

[–] Someplaceunknown@fedia.io 15 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

The eventual heat death of the universe would be painful

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[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 7 points 8 hours ago

Just depression in general. I don't want to live one lifetime, let alone never being able to die.

If you're immortal in a body that isn't broken then that might be a different story, but you'd still grow to love people only to have to lose them and go through that pain over and over.

[–] CuddlyCassowary@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago

Based on your question, you might dig the book β€œBoat of a Million Years.” The author put quite a bit of thought into just that.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Boat_of_a_Million_Years

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 16 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

The Sun will eventually fry all life on Earth and boil off the water & atmosphere. Eventually the Sun will die out completely, leaving you on a cold, dark rock.

[–] viking@infosec.pub 12 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

With no atmosphere and the sun going nova, there's a chance of the rock getting obliterated. With a nice boost you might fly off to another planet eventually. Might not be inhabited or even inhabitable, but hey.

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[–] ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago

As we get older, our perception of time speeds up. An immortal would easily lose track of time after just two human lifetimes, causing an immortal to suffer from dementia-like symptoms where they expect one date but find themselves habitually late. And since time doesn't mean the same thing as us to an immortal, they would eventually become disconnected from the world around them and be unable to reintegrate. They wouldn't be able to maintain friendships, relationships, mortgages, payments, etc. They would be surrounded by people but forever alone.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 12 points 9 hours ago

Government Bureaucracy.

Renewing a driver's licence or passport. The individual looking at your application will see the date of birth and raise a red flag.

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