I understand the sentiment of not wanting to pay much money for clothes you don't wear much, but SHEIN is an especially bad fast fashion brand with horrible working conditions and sometimes even toxic chemicals in the clothing. Just google SHEIN toxic, you'll find several sources

[–] desktop_user@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

based

(I don't care about "fast fashion" and just see it as cheap disposable clothes)

[–] I_am_10_squirrels@beehaw.org 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Clothes should not be disposable

[–] desktop_user@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 5 months ago

all clothes are disposable, some just last longer than others.

[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago

i think they were hoping for media that was so motivating as to make them question themselves.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 35 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'm a femboy on the inside, but a dad on the outside. I wish I was a femboy on the outside with a dad inside me, though.

[–] I_am_10_squirrels@beehaw.org 8 points 5 months ago

Only a dad can truly fill the hole.

In your heart.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Me fr (but trans) :3

[–] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 24 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

So femboys are not trans, yes? I accidentally called a femboy dude and felt bad about it, but then I was like, "wait, no, they're just a boy who likes girly stuff, it's OK to call them dude, right?"

I'd ask them but don't want to be rude(r).

[–] th3f4ult@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Well MOST femboys don't identify as trans women, some of them do, not to be confused with transmasc femboys, They also exist.

[–] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Guess I'll have to ask and apologize if I misgendered them. Thanks!

[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

'Dude' as a term is losing its gender anyway.

[–] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 4 points 5 months ago

I'm all for it.

"You guys" too.

[–] zaph@sh.itjust.works 13 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Wait is dude gendered now??

[–] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 9 points 5 months ago

Some people think so, but I'm all for it being used to refer to anyone.

[–] julianh@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago

Depends on the person. I tend to use "guys" and "dudes" as gender neutral and nobody's ever corrected me, but it doesn't hurt to ask.

[–] th3f4ult@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 5 months ago

Me fr (I wish, I actually don't know any irl femboys)

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 27 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

... so an SCP?

Risk class: safe

[–] lessthanluigi@lemmy.world 24 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Cause I'm a material femboy, in a material world!

[–] joyjoy@lemm.ee 7 points 5 months ago

It's a femboy world

[–] bownage@beehaw.org 21 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I keep telling my cis male friends to wear feminine clothes but they never listen :(

[–] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 5 months ago

Tell them the ultimate expression of masculinity is confidence and security in themselves regardless of societal expectations.

And then get their measurements, just in case you see something good on sale.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 5 months ago

owo face is a symptom of transmissibility.

[–] general_kitten@sopuli.xyz 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Ever since i saw my friend in a cute skirt i have wanted to get one too.

[–] th3f4ult@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago

Yeah that sort of stuff happens.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago

A cure is possible, but would you really want it?

[–] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 7 points 5 months ago

I'm going to need the msds sheets on this material