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Tbh I'm not a big fan of quotes, but those two captured what I wanted to prod at that I felt them useful. Also yours is pretty much exactly why I'm asking this. It's a waste to argue, so what might be alternatives to change people's minds and spread good info?
Perhaps free food and beer and some good babble?
I tend to think the only way of changing minds is by building community. Most anti-Semites didn't get that way by knowing a bunch of Jewish people and developing a keen understanding of their culture and customs. They got that way by being alienated and being told by someone with an agenda that their problems were all caused by "the Jews".
It may not always be easy or correct, but if you want to change someone's mind, they need to feel like they would benefit from changing their mind, which means they need to feel the social pressures that come with a genuine sense of belonging to a community.
Yeah. A lot of belief is social.
If you say something to someone that threatens their group membership, the brain reacts similarly to how it responds to a physical threat.
So if you tell a Trump supporter "trump is a dangerous bad man", their brain likely goes down a largely subconscious path of "if I accept this I will be rejected from the group and left to die alone in the woods". So they have to do a lot of work to avoid that. Facts and truth are less important.
Appealing to another group they also have membership in can work, though. Like you might not get a conservative to recycle by appealing to environmentalism, because that's an out group thing to them. But you might be able to get it by saying like "only America has the ingenuity to turn trash into treasure like this" or something.
So if you want to get someone out of anti semitism, you need to make them not see that as an important group.
This is why I find a lot of the rhetoric about people with politically incorrect views to be very dangerous. It's popular nowadays to say that someone with wrong opinions is not just a bad person, but irredeemable, and not deserving of an opportunity to be better. It means that the person in your example knows that they'd not only be rejected from their current group, but that no other group would take them because of their previously held views.
What I've been doing lately is using conspiritorial logic to push my narrative. Who knows if it's actually working but when you start to think about it you start noticing patterns and things...