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My partner went out tonight and gave me a shady excuse (beehaw.org)
submitted 1 year ago by neamhsplach@beehaw.org to c/chat@beehaw.org
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They took off on their bike earlier and when they came back I asked where they'd been. They gave me an odd answer and I smelled a rat. I pointed out the inconsistencies and still they doubled down on the "why don't you trust me". I was unwell with worry at this point, I didn't know what to expect.

I don't advocate for going through people's data but I was a little bit insane at this point and I needed to know what was going on, consequences be damned. So after they fell asleep I looked at their phone. The last app that had been opened was 2good2go. The fucker had gone and picked up a free burrito without me and tried to hide it from me ๐Ÿคฃ

What does it all mean?? Should I confront them or let it slide??

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[โ€“] neamhsplach@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah they've needed a lot of that recently. Been some other issues going on in their life that I'm trying to support them through but we definitely deal with pain in different ways. I'm an open book whereas they're very quiet. Maybe this was a therapeutic burrito. I hope so.

[โ€“] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

Sometimes introverts gotta introvert.

[โ€“] Evkob@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

Aren't all burritos therapeutic burritos?

You sound like a loving and understanding partner.