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How to stop thinking like 'first is special' in relationships. (beehaw.org)

submitted 1 month ago by SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org to c/relationshipanarchy

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So something we have been thinking about recently is the 'first is special' toxic idea of like it's better if some{one/many} does a particular thing with some{one/many} first before any others or just before some{one/many} else even if they aren't the first and how to stop thinking this way.

Do y'all have any ideas/suggestions on how to do this or work on it (slowly)?

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[–] perestroika 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Do y’all have any ideas/suggestions on how to do this or work on it (slowly)?

I have no idea. I can only say that the first time something happens, involves considerable risk of people being clueless about whatever they are getting into. :)

In aviation, the first will often enough crash and burn, and pilots are lucky if they get back home alive. :)