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I hate my parents (beehaw.org)
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I fucking hate my parents. They always make me out as the problem. I keep getting mixed signals on whether they are lgbt accepting and are ultra religious.

One day i get a signal that maybe coming out as bisexual wouldnt be a wreck, the next they ramble about how im a failure for not liking the catholic church and how they just wanted to "raise me right" .

Every fucking day I'm always the problem apparently. And then they wonder why I'm trying to protect my siblings from them. I'm sick of it.

Pretty much every day I'm shouted at for one reason or another

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[–] ShellMonkey@lemmy.socdojo.com 6 points 1 year ago

I've been that scary parent before. My own kid was of the mind that "It's always the dad that hates you and disowns you if you come out..." originally. I can't speak for your own parents or situation but in my case the only real question was to try and figgure out if I had the understanding right. Maybe your's are the old "it's a choice" type, I don't know any of you, but feel free to bounce stuff off one who's been the other side if you like.