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[–] spaduf 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I think these are some good points particularly as they reflect on the idea of 'redefining' Masculinity. While i would argue our current conception of Masculinity is much more deeply rooted (certainly much much older) than neoliberalism, Masculinity is similarly dependent on the idea of competition as the primary means of expression. This is why i believe it is somewhat missing the point to try to define a positive Masculinity. If you've got a group of people who've existed since birth in an intrinsically competitive environment, it is not enough to say the new ideal is not competitive. When the cultural notions of the group are already set in place, a supposedly less competitive ideal will result in almost no actual social change. Deconstructing the competitive instincts of Masculinity should be the primary project.

[–] spaduf 10 points 7 months ago

I'm gonna link this in the sidebar.

[–] spaduf 1 points 7 months ago

But it's also clearly partisan with just enough play to avoid a boycott. Everything the authoritarian president does to initiate the war has a very direct analogue in actions taken by Trump and his administration.

[–] spaduf 1 points 7 months ago

but you see them commit war crime after war crime

Ib keep seeing people saying this and i think it misses one of the major points of the movie. We're not supposed to look at this and go "they are bad because they committed war crime". We are supposed to look at this and go "of course they're committing war crimes, who's gonna stop them". This movie is very interested in the idea of what happens during war when a hegemonic US can't play world police.

[–] spaduf 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Also bombing civilians?

[–] spaduf 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I'm also watching the open book project.

If it just had epub support it'd be perfect

[–] spaduf 2 points 7 months ago

So I'm not necessarily advocating for a world without individual gender expression. The key difference here is external vs internal pressures.

[–] spaduf 2 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I actually think that we're all better off without normative gender roles. To that end, I think that any attempt to define an alternative masculinity leaves you with something that is just as restrictive.

[–] spaduf 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

The majority of feminists are at least drawing from feminist works (even if the knowledge comes secondhand). When progress is made, it is made at the academic level.

[–] spaduf 1 points 7 months ago (4 children)

There's a degree to which deconstruction of these sorts of topics automatically does work to dismantle them. For those with an egalitarian inclination, it is usually enough to point out unfair actions they have taken in the past to prevent them in the future. Obviously, there's a lot more external pressure here (one of the main focuses of the article) but I would argue this is even more relevant in that case.

If we were to try to teach a fish how to clean the water they live in, we must first start with what water is.

[–] spaduf 9 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Feminism does not care that the vast majority of workplace deaths are men. Feminism does not care that boys are failing school at unprecedented rates.
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My struggles as a man are not feminism’s issue.

I think you'd be surprised. The vast majority of those who actually cover these topics are feminists, doing academic feminism.

[–] spaduf 2 points 7 months ago

Definitely didn't realize this was such an old article. Side note, it's probably also worthwhile to discuss how things have changed in the past decade.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by spaduf to c/music@lemmy.world
 

crossposted from: https://lemmy.world/post/11215979

The Mixtape is an ongoing effort by We Distribute to showcase the musicians of the Fediverse and their work. Each issue is a playlist of 10 tracks centered around a theme, that our followers can vote on.

For Issue #4, it’s SPACE VIBES! These are various themes of discovery, exploration, travel, and danger. Even if the tracks aren’t explicitly about space, we put them together based on the complementary vibe and feeling, and interpreted them.

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What's the plan? (self.digitalcommunitybuilding)
submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by spaduf to c/digitalcommunitybuilding
 

The Plan

As an introductory subproject, I will be reaching out directly to Lemmy moderators and asking for their experiences establishing and growing their communities. Once compiled, a summary of the experiences will be written up in a living document for current best practices. To do this, I will be contacting moderators in sets of roughly 5-10 at a time. This will allow for constructive iteration in a way that posting on the “new community” subs (as is more or less standard practice) simply would not.

What then?

Once there are enough resources to be useful I'll make announcement posts in relevant communities as well as reach out to the mods of communities like !newcommunities@lemmy.world about being linked in the sidebar.

And long term?

We'll organize a series of activity drives intended to build bonds and strengthen the institutional knowledge of the fediverse. These initiatives may include:

  • Wiki Building
  • Outreach Drives
  • Community Consolidation and Organization
  • Cross-Community Collaboration
  • Housecleaning
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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by spaduf to c/dcbwiki
 

Very frequently, the best parts of online communities are the result of tacking on unintended functionality to existing software (frequently in unergonomic ways). Chances are, if your community has adapted to jumping through some hoops to participate, folks would be better off removing those hoops altogether and building first class functionality. Take detailed note of where this occurs and consider speaking to your devs about it. Remember, your community is their community.


This wiki is a living document. If you are interested in contributing, please comment below or make a post over at !digitalcommunitybuilding@slrpnk.net

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