rosymind

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[–] rosymind@leminal.space 1 points 11 months ago (12 children)

I understand your frustration, and also the need to come across as condescending. You're probably the downvote on my comment. You want to punish me, don't you?

See, that feeling you are feeling... that frustration. It isn't unique to you.

The primary driver in fascism is emotion. Fear, anger, frustration. Stong human emotion that lead to feeling like other people are lesser than yourself. The bad guy. The evil one. The ones that must be stopped.

Those strong feelings and the desire to shush the words of the other are exactly the kinds of things that lead to extremes.

Having strong feelings toward other people are as natural and normal as homosexuality.

When I say inclusion, I'm not talking about inviting the Nazi to roast the Jew at dinner. I'm talking about inviting everyone, Jew, Christian, Atheist, Hindu, Muslim, everyone, to dinner and giving each a timer to talk.

It sounds hokey as fuck, but we need to learn to love each other as we love ourselves. Only then, can Nazi's cease to exist. If you repress people, it only makes the hate stronger.

Anyway, there is a portion of the population that is incapable of what I mentioned above. For them, there is no cure. For them, they must be watched. If -and only if- they cause harm to others, then they need to be jailed to protect everyone else. But... I believe they're (thankfully) rare. For everyone else, there's hope

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 5 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Sure, but only when they are too little to know better, or to do something themselves. If they are babied into childhood they may turn into adults who still believe the world revolves around them. I have a couple x's like that. Into their late 30's and still can't function without someone else helping them

Lessons need to be learned at the appropriate ages

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 1 points 11 months ago

For sure.

I didnt really realize how different my family was from other people for a long time. I don't know most of them well enough to know what the prevelance of neurodiversion is. It's just too hard to say why each of them went where they did... but at least with my dad, his behaviours and mine are alike enough that I can guess I got my ADHD from him. He died a long while back so I can't know for sure... but he was always all over the place. He even died in a different country on vacation!

[–] rosymind@leminal.space -3 points 11 months ago (18 children)

Interesting. So, do you think that if something becomes illegal, it simply goes away?

So, for example...lets take something I feel is a natural. Homosexuality. If suddenly homosexuality suddenly became punishable by death by everyone in the world would it vanish? Would all people just be straight? No.

People are all wired differently.

Instead of repressing who people are, we should seek to understand what fears people have, what brings them comfort, educate them, highlight the ways in which we are similair as people. We should fight fascism not with oppression but inclusion.

Facists gain power by division. It's "us" vs "them"

They lose power when "us" is all there is.

Anyway. My original point is that I would rather see the wolf for what it is and watch it, than allow it to hide amongst the flock, undetected

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

FISHFACE FOR PRESIDENT!

[–] rosymind@leminal.space -1 points 11 months ago (20 children)

I'm not Australian, but...

If you let the baddies march, you can identify them later and tie them to the hate-crimes when they happen.

If I was the government, I would absolutely let people show me who they are. I'd rather know what I'm up against, how many, and who amonsgt them I can dig dirt up on

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 13 points 11 months ago (9 children)

Seriously!

Oh, you've tasked AI with managing banking? K. All bank funds are suddenly corrupted. Oh, you've tasked AI with managing lights at traffic intersections? K, they're all green now. Oh, you've tasked AI with filtering 911 calls to dispachers? K, all real emergencies are on hold until disconnected

I could go on and on and on...

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 6 points 11 months ago

If it makes you feel better, it's usually more. There are a lot of factors, including how much the surogacy agency gets for their cut, which state or country, if they are a family member or friend, whether the parents are able to add a surrogate on their insurance, etc.

We looked into it because I'm older and thus higher risk, but ultimately decided against it. My neice even offered to carry our kid, but I just feel too guilty. I'm kind of whatever on having children but my husband has dreamed of being a dad since he was a lil' boy

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 13 points 11 months ago

Yeah, and the cost is dependant upon location. Surrogates tend to be women who have easy (or easier) pregnancies, who want to help other people in need.

I'm not saying that desperation or exploitation don't happen, just that generally surrogates are people who are doing it out of love for other people (not for the money)

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Idk. I'd vote for Hunter over Donald if given the chance

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 1 points 11 months ago

I turned off auto-correct because it changed "Mary"to "Mark." Like... wtf!

Of course, now I'm being forced to type properly and learn to spell. Win situation for me, in reality, but it's also super annoying

[–] rosymind@leminal.space 93 points 11 months ago (28 children)

I haven't yet seen anyone else point out:

If the embryo was tested, they would know the sex before transferring it to the surrogate uterus (easily avoiding the problem). IVF is insanely expensive, as are surrogates. (Surrogates go for $50k plus per pregnancy)

Whoever did this comic is so willfully (and woefully) ignorant on so many levels that I wonder how they're able to function at all

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