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[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 70 points 1 year ago (3 children)

We need a c/AreTheStraightsOkay on lemmy, it is my most missed community from reddit at this point.

[–] cloaker@kbin.social 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Be the change you wish to see my friend.

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ok i made it and i am blaming you for the decision to do so

!are_the_straights_ok@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] cloaker@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago
[–] Cube6392@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You are uniquely positioned on the very best instance for such a community

[–] rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hi there! Looks like you linked to a Lemmy community using a URL instead of its name, which doesn't work well for people on different instances. Try fixing it like this: !are_the_straights_ok@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[–] Baylahoo@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

As a straight, I agree. I think my partner and I are okay. A good reality check periodically won't hurt us though.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My bitch wife makes me leave the home …because I have higher social needs than her and she loves me

[–] HumbleHobo@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mine too, what the hell, I think maybe we should tell people about this life.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah she even pushes me into the arms of another woman…

Who she gets along with and is happy I get to spend time with

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 37 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Haha my ex wife imprisoned me in a decade of servitude the took my children and assets haha what a bitch amiright guys👴

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But they will never tell you why their ex wife left him or their kids want nothing to do with them.

[–] HardlightCereal@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Elon's wife left him for a trans woman and his trans daughter disowned him. Then he promoted a transphobic documentary produced by a self-identified Nazi. So, chicken and egg problem: is Elon a transphobic Nazi because he's butthurt about trans people, or do trans accepting people dump him because he's a transphobic Nazi?

[–] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 10 points 1 year ago

The answer is obvious: do not waste your brains cells on that loser.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Am I confused. This comment seems out of nowhere. I wasn't talking about anyone in specific I was just joking about the boomer sterotype

[–] HardlightCereal@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm neurodivergent and have a different sense of relevance than most people

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 6 points 1 year ago

Fair enough. I just wanted to check in and clear things up cause I thought you thought that I was pro elon or anti trans.

[–] ezchili@iusearchlinux.fyi 11 points 1 year ago

God forbid a girlboss does anything

[–] onlinely@lemm.ee 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Idk, if I’m being honest, almost every relationship I’ve been in with any gender has always wound up at some level of manipulation and loss of autonomy. I realize it doesn’t have to but it truly is sad

[–] ProgrammingSocks@pawb.social 6 points 1 year ago

I have no wisdom to offer. Just that I feel the same way and it's why I'm single right now. I can't devote energy to that.

[–] amtwon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago
[–] ag_roberston_author@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This isn't necessarily a boomer "I hate my wife" meme comment though, right?

It's healthy in a long-term relationship to discuss things with your partner before doing them. When you communicate healthily, there are quite a few things you wouldn't just spontaneously decide to do without talking to your significant other. They might have already made plans, they might need the car, they might not want to do the thing but think you should do it, they might remind you that you're saving for a house deposit or a big trip, so on and so forth.

[–] averyfalken@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

I know. Like reading that myind doesn't go to ha the guy thinks his wife's a bitch its more a hey I'm in a long term relationship and that should be a partnership which means sometimes you can't just to and do random shit.

Not to mention all the other responsibilities that keep me a bit more tied down and not going full crazy with zany ideas

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