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[–] Gigan@lemmy.world 135 points 7 months ago (3 children)

The fact that your SSN is so important and still so insecure is pathetic. Thanks US government.

[–] Hugh_Jeggs@lemm.ee 34 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Yeah I don't get why that is? My SSN is NE079792B, what on earth can anyone do with that info? Pay into my pension?

[–] allywilson@sopuli.xyz 30 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

It's fairly important to keep it private for US citizens, see here.

[–] Hugh_Jeggs@lemm.ee 62 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Wow it was such a simple thing when online banking started getting popular, the EU stepped in and simply made a law that said "Fraud is the bank's problem, not the consumer"

Yet another way for the ol' US to fuck their citizens' lives up, huh

[–] skuzz@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 6 months ago

Yet another way for the ol’ US to fuck their citizens’ lives up, huh

That's the smell of freedom right there! Yeah!

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 6 points 6 months ago

“We identify you by a unique ID”

Wow, a unique ID! Is it secret?

“It’s totally top secret. It’s nine digits”

Nine digits

“Nine digits. With dashes in the middle.”

And so that’s how the social security office …

“Well not just social security. You see, to date it’s the only government institution that’s managed to deploy a database table so …”

So what?

“So we use it for everything”

How is is top secret?

“Well, it’s your job to keep it secret”

That shouldn’t be too hard I guess. But what happens if it’s compromised?

“We call this Identity Theft. It’s bad. Don’t let anyone else get your nine digit number”

Uh … my cell phone provider wants my unique ID. Is this a scam?

“No. Legit people are allowed to ask for your ID”

Legit people

“Any institutions we consider too legit to quit, ie too big to fail, are allowed to ask for it”

Okay

“And anyone else who’s legitimate can ask for it”

Legitimate

“Yes legitimate parties can ask for your top secret ID”

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[–] ClopClopMcFuckwad@lemmy.world 85 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Don't worry, you'll probably get like a $5 bill credit as an apology/settlement to never be able to sue.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 15 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yeah but they probably missed the deadline, so they get nothing.

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[–] evidences@lemmy.world 14 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Don't forget about the one year of free credit monitoring

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 59 points 7 months ago (2 children)
[–] urist@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The irony of a billion dollar company losing my personal info and helpfully offering me credit monitoring service from the other billion dollar company that lost my info. It’s so good.

Throw into the mix: I had to do business with AT&T because they were the only ISP available to my Appartment complex. I never had the choice to not do business with these companies.

Equifax handles my company’s payroll.

Please, I want to get off Mr bones wild ride.

[–] CafecitoHippo@lemm.ee 4 points 6 months ago

We finally got a viable replacement for Comcast internet. I changed the moment I was able to and couldn't be happier. 1.2Gbps symmetrical connection for $85 a month. That plus YouTube TV is $70 cheaper than what I was paying Comcast for their garbage service that had constant outages. Before, the only options were mobile internet or Verizon DSL.

[–] RvTV95XBeo@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Something something pot kettle.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 months ago
[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 46 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It's really lame that companies like AT&T even need your SSN. Why do they need that to set up a phone line or an internet connection? There's gotta be a better way.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (7 children)

To identity you

Edit: I'm not defending the system. I'm just stating the fact

[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 14 points 6 months ago (2 children)

You can identify by other means. Or at least give the opportunity to use other means. If you can't keep my personal information safe, you shouldn't be allowed to collect it.

[–] melpomenesclevage@lemm.ee 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

okay but then they wouldn't have as much data to sell and re-sell and corellate, and couldn't ask as high a price.

do you just hate business?

[–] RamblingPanda@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 6 months ago (2 children)

do you just hate business?

They make it too easy, it's hard not to hate them.

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[–] Breve@pawb.social 11 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Then why can I buy a prepaid SIM with cash and no ID? I do this when travelling to the US because it's cheaper than international roaming.

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[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 7 points 6 months ago

If only there were some sort of moniker you went by other than a SSN. That coupled with some sort of location data could narrow you down to, ooh, one person I suppose.

In the UK we have NI number, which is used by my employer, pension provider, the tax services, the benefits office, and that's pretty much it. It's not used as a general source of ID by corporations.

From an outside point of view, the US system looks crazy. And that's coming from somebody who's country has a TV license.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 6 months ago

Then why do our ISPs in Germany at best just need our contract confirmation and maybe a SEPA entry?

Even my bank I opened an account with just wanted to get my tax-id and my ID-number (wich changes with every re-issue).

[–] RamblingPanda@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Even if there were no other way, why store it? How often do they need to re-identify you?

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[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 32 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Why does AT&T need your SIN?!?

[–] GluWu@lemm.ee 22 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

So they can permanently mark you as a poor when you miss a single monthly payment thus effecting your ability to do anything with money in the future making you poorer and perpetuating a cycle in order to trap you into a system that benefits from your suffering.

[–] RvTV95XBeo@sh.itjust.works 15 points 6 months ago

Or even better, my experience with them - they can permanently mark you as poor when the person who stole your identity in the last data beach (Thanks Experian!) doesn't make their monthly payment, thus tanking your credit while you're entering escrow on your first home.

Thanks AT&T, now my stolen information I never even gave you is probably back on the black market! The cycle continues.

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[–] Ioughttamow@kbin.run 13 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Goddamn are we shadowrun now? Where are the pink Mohawk orc deckers?

[–] JudahBenHur@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago

deckers... jesus christ thanks for activating a neuron that hadn't stirred in 20 years

[–] fadedmaster@sh.itjust.works 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Because people finance their phones with AT&T, usually without realizing it. "Free" phones and discounted phones are not usually free or discounted. You're forced to stay with them to get the discount off each month. I hate it because I'd rather just pay for my phone outright and be done, but then you actually pay more.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Not sure I see how you end up paying more by buying your phone outright, it's more up front but then your monthly price for service is lower.

[–] fadedmaster@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 months ago

They give you a discount per month. So for example, a $1000 phone is on sale for $600, but they don't give you $400 off up front. Its a $11.11 per month discount for the next 36 months. You pay $16.67 per month until its paid off. If you pay it up front you pay $1000. If you leave early or pay it off early you lose the $11/month discount on the payment for the phone

Its intended to lure people in for an advertised cheap or free phone, but then you're stuck with them paying for the device.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 months ago

Depending on the calculation the phone + plan can be cheaper than just the phone and just the plan

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 18 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

Not surprising. I wouldn't be surprised if at some point every person in the US will have been affected by data breaches.

[–] BubbleMonkey 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That is very likely already the case, let’s be serious here. Our companies, especially the ones with really firm mono- or duopolies, give absolutely no fucks about protecting citizen data, they just have insurance to cover the damages.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The insurance requires that they take precautions. Cyber insurance is a really good thing.

[–] BubbleMonkey 5 points 6 months ago

You’re right about cyber insurance, I wasn’t thinking about that, and should have put insurance in quotes.

What I was referring to is when they just set aside some money for the inevitable lawsuit or fine, and do nothing about it.

[–] Frozengyro@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago

Jokes on you, I'm off the grid.

-Posted from St Louis Library Roomba 2.1

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[–] moon@lemmy.cafe 17 points 6 months ago (1 children)

This is a bit off topic and obviously bullshit, but I do recommend the social monitoring service, as well as freezing your credit. No real reason not to. I see freezing your credit as like setting a simple 2fa for your credit. You can unfreeze it at any time for free, and that extra bit of inconvenience of having to unfreeze it can stop impulse credit card sign ups. Also I have a "world class" Mastercard, but they also have free credit monitoring that I recommend. I think Visa might have something similar, but I'm not entirely sure.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 14 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I froze my credit immediately.

[–] moon@lemmy.cafe 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yeah even if it's not needed I personally don't see any reason why you wouldn't want to keep your credit frozen. I see it as like 2fa for your credit score.

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[–] citrusface@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yeah same fucking boat - absolutely bullshit.

[–] rhythmisaprancer@kbin.social 5 points 7 months ago

Also same. I haven't had anything to do with them since 2013 but they still somehow sent me an email. Not sure it is worth following up in, tho.

[–] Hiro8811@lemmy.world 11 points 7 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Yeah there's been a breach at at&t a long time ago. Here a good video explaining https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrVwKfrj57U

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Why would AT&T need to be storing social security numbers? For debts people owe them or something?

[–] drislands@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Real answer: when people finance their phones, the provider needs to check their credit to confirm if they're actually eligible.

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The real question is, why do they retain that information?

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago

Jesus christ we can’t outsource this to stripe or something like we do with credit card info?

[–] wolfeh@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

"American Thieves & Thugs"

— Archie Bunker

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