this post was submitted on 06 Nov 2024
159 points (93.9% liked)

transgender

1930 readers
87 users here now

Welcome to lemmy.ml/c/transgender! This is a community for sharing transgender or gender diverse related news articles, posts, and support for the community.

Rules:

  1. Bigotry, transphobia, racism, nationalism, and chauvinism are not allowed.

  2. Selfies are not permitted for the safety of users.

  3. No surveys or studies.

  4. Debating transgender rights is not allowed. Transgender rights are human rights. Debating transgender healthcare is not allowed. Transgender healthcare is a necessity.

  5. No civility policing transgender people. Transgender people have a right to be angry about transphobia and be rude to transphobes.

  6. If you are cis, do not downvote posts. We don't like you manipulating our community.

  7. Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.

  8. For both cis and trans people: Please alter your username (if possible) to include pronouns (or lack thereof, or questioning) so no one misgenders anyone. details. This rule is important for maintaining a safe place. If you can't change your ID, please let a mod know and include it in your bio.

  9. Leftist infighting is not allowed.

Please remember to report posts that break any of these rules, it makes our job easier!


If you are looking for a more secure and safe trans space, we suggest you visit https://hexbear.net/c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns. While we will try our best, lemmy.ml/c/transgender is far more open to the fediverse, and also to trolls. One of the site admins of lemmy.ml, nutomic, is also a transphobe, while hexbear is ran mostly by trans people and has a very active trans community.

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 
top 27 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] Hupf@feddit.org 1 points 10 hours ago

Why not share text as text? What about accessibility?

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 58 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Fediverse sites are not private and secure. That is basically the entire point, it's an open standard that shares information with whoever wants to spin up an instance to receive it.

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 26 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Except using centralized social media (TikTok, Instagram, etc.) will guarantee your IP, probably location and other user data is logged onto a server, basically free for the fascists to see. Lemmy is at least decentralized, private, so more hurdles to request data from, by design not data hungry (eg. no apps that log your precise location for "advertisements"), and a lot of servers are out of the ~~germans~~ (oops, true, we're not the nazis anymore/yet) americans jurisdictions.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 days ago

Use tor also

[–] bountygiver@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

yup, what you post publicly is public. It's the reason I find it irrational when people are complaining about X now lets blocked users see your posts. Your posts are public, people who created a fresh account can see your posts, it is already public, blocking stopping them from viewing your posts only gave you a false perception of privacy.

The only advantage of fediverse is you can choose an instance that doesn't sell your browsing habits, other instances can only see your public actions like public posts and votes.

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Certain sites are far more secure, they scramble IP and show their code.

[–] rain_worl@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago
[–] ObsidianZed@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A friend of mine also shared this

[–] Binette@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago
[–] whydudothatdrcrane@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I agree with the sentiment of your post, but I think the scope is way off. I read through the comments and I found things I did not expect to find here (which messenger is better) and not the stuff I was expecting to find, which is the actual survival game. Yeah sure, reliable secure telecommunications is an aspect of it, but if you really expect the US to pull a Holocaust on trans people there are several other things to think about, both before and after discussing the channels of communication.

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

The first step is networking through secure communication, especially at this early stage where we simply can't predict what is or isn't going to happen. Don't underestimate the importance and value of communication.

[–] whydudothatdrcrane@lemmy.ml 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah sure. That would have prevented the Holocaust, a public Matrix server.

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 7 hours ago
[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

Communication is the first step in providing assistance to people

[–] KaRunChiy@fedia.io 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

To all my girlies and guys and everyone else out there, while these next few years are going to be horrible to us, we have to hold strong. They chose us as the scapegoat for their problems, and we must show them that we are the real victims of this. Our pride as citizens of a free world comes before the overwhelming pressure of a potentially fascist government, and as scary as it will be, I really do have faith that we will be okay, and that the free world will be on our side. It may not even be in our lifetime, but it will come, and our actions in this day and age will determine this.

[–] KaRunChiy@fedia.io 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

BTW I got super super drunk after the results were announced and I absolutely am going to cringe at everything I wrote

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I think it was beautiful.

[–] MangoPenguin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Anything you post online publically is public, reddit or Lemmy it makes no difference.

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It absolutely does matter, sharing browser fingerprint and ip to a large corporation is dangerous.

[–] rcbrk@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Embedded images on lemmy are loaded directly from the servers they're stored on, often not your home instance. Bam, adversary has your ip and access time and what caught your attention.

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 2 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Some servers don't do this, Hexbear for example auto rehosts images to hexbear or removes external images.

[–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 10 points 2 days ago

I wouldn't say Matrix is secure nor turstworthy, they ignored a security vulnerability for years and many clients aren't updated to the latest encryption library yet, not everything is encrypted by default and the company behind it cares more about businesses than the 'normal' person.

[–] prototype_g2@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I heard SimpleX is a good privacy oriented chat program.

Found a video by Mental Outlaw explaining how to use it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cRu98XSap0

[–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There's no real evidence it is secure yet. You're better off with Signal.

SimpleX just doesn't have the legal testing (yet).

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Signal unfortunately has a big barrier to entry (cell phone), many people that cannot afford that or not allowed it by family will be left out. Also verification via phone number means the government knows you're using it for sure and they can try the big wrench method on you. If you do need to use it just download Molly.

[–] SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Fair.

However, SimpleX is very bare bones and does not have the security nor legal testing (I've not really seen an audit but maybe I missed it) meaning it cannot really be trusted yet and most normal folks won't move to it. It's been 2 years (or more) for example since someone asked for a proper iPad version and still nothing last we checked.

There's also no easy profile syncing yet.

Let alone none of the features that make Signal easy to use and fun.

Sadly Molly is only avaliable on Android and not everyone has Android on all their devices. Plus there's Linux Tablets out there which can't easily run it either.

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago

Yeah, I fully recommend it for 1 on 1 secure comms. Discord is much better replaced by Matrix, though