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[โ€“] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 97 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I think that a large majority of trans girls don't have body shapes like that, so the idea kinda falls flat and you end up hating yourself because even after bottom surgery, you still can't pull off that look at all.

Not that I would know anything about that ๐Ÿคฅ

Edit: Yes, I get that this is on the extreme side of things, but as I said in another comment, there is a phenotype and often we don't fit into the one we so desperately want to.

I often times hate these trans/hrt memes because of how comedically unrealistic the results they portray are and how shitty they make me feel.

Its a bone of contention for me.

[โ€“] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 80 points 1 month ago (1 children)

a large majority of trans girls don't have body shapes like that

Cis girls too. These are extreme body types (likely a good bit of photo fuckery too)

[โ€“] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

I at least notice heavy photoshopping on the middle and right one, especially apparent from the front. Yeah, cosplayers often do a lot of photoshopping, especially the erotic ones. Sometimes to a laughable amount, to still get an hourglass-shape while someone's plus sized (which wouldn't be a problem for me, except other men).

[โ€“] RBWells@lemmy.world 40 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

A large majority of us born female (female-bodied) also do not have that shape either. In fact even those models probably don't have that shape.

Sure, not that extreme a shape, but there is a phenotype. I don't have that phenotype, so I go for expensive surgeries to fit into the correct phenotype.

[โ€“] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 75 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Every time I see or hear the phrase bottom surgery, I imagine going in to get a fatter ass.

[โ€“] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 38 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I had a dream once that a pimp was in charge of alteration surgeries, and trans people walked in and he would go "FO' YOUZ I GIVE MA BOTTOM SURGERY, SHE DA BEST SURGERY, MY MAIN SURGERY" and he was the best doctor in town for it.

[โ€“] nerdy_bisexual_mess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

iirc in college humors Dimension 20, a transmasc character gets top surgery from the sketchy mob surgeon

[โ€“] Excrubulent 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think they've dropped the College Humor name, now they're Dropout.

Which season is that? Is it Fantasy High Senior Year?

[โ€“] nerdy_bisexual_mess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] programmer_belch@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Spider-man wears something similar, I'm sure a skilled tailor can make your dream come true

[โ€“] NegativeInf@lemmy.world 27 points 1 month ago

Or a latex fetish shop.

[โ€“] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 31 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[โ€“] lud@lemm.ee 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

They don't look as good, duh.

[โ€“] felykiosa@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Im sorry but Henry cavill look THAT GOOD

[โ€“] lud@lemm.ee 13 points 1 month ago

Ok, but will I or the average person?

This is probably the best I could do

(Yes I know that most probably couldn't pull off a good looking Spider woman either but yeah.

[โ€“] zaphodb2002@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

You take that back. Ben is beautiful and perfect and I will hear nothing to the contrary.

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[โ€“] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 28 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes I really want it. I don't really care about wearing these tight looking outfits. I just want to not have these things (my penis and my testicles) hanging between my legs, they're disgusting. HRT has shrank them a lot but I would be much happier if they were completely gone and I had a vagina, or even nothing at all. I'd rather have nothing than have them. I did actually try to cut them off before but I didn't have it in me to get little more than through the surface before backing out from the blood and pain.

[โ€“] RubberElectrons@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wouldn't that potentially cause a lot (a loooot) of blood loss? Genetalia seem to be pretty well circulated, see: what stays warm when cold.

Hope you're doing ok

I'm doing better now. That was before I was on HRT that I tried to do away with them myself. I'm feeling better now, less grossed out and uncomfortable because of how much they've shrank. I still wish they were completely gone though.

[โ€“] Korne127@lemmy.world 27 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[โ€“] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago

๐Ÿฅต

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[โ€“] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 month ago (3 children)

one word. tucking. good luck bestie

[โ€“] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 28 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

coward, if people can't handle your glory that just means they're envious.

athletes wear tiny tight pants all the time and no one tells them to tuck

I tuck because I don't want to look down and see the thing either.

[โ€“] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Good point, in that case a "dance belt" may be a good choice. It helps keep your balls from getting stuck on that seam between your legs, provides freedom of movement, and makes the total bulge more prominent (while also smoothing out the actual details).

[โ€“] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 month ago

ideally the suit would just actually be designed to contain your artillery

[โ€“] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Issue is, it's not just the looks, but also:

  • people just feel dysphoric about it in general,
  • some people would like to (primarily) be penetrated, but anal sex is too painful for them,
  • even then, it needs preparation, unless you're a special kind of pervert that likes the fact, that people poop from there,
  • genital preferences of others.

Tucking literally isn't enough for me, I feel dysphoria because I have it, not just because other people see it. I still feel it and know its there. It feels gross, it makes me feel gross. I just wish it was gone ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[โ€“] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 month ago

You can Photoshop your body just like they did.

Ngl, being able to wear leggins is about 90% of the benefit of SRS for me.

It's been 5 or 6 years, 100% worth it.

  • Sent from my phone while wearing leggins
[โ€“] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Try a tucking thong first, it's cheaper

[โ€“] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Gaff is the usual term for these, and yeah that's what I came to the comment section to mention too. If you can't afford one (anyone reading) then Point of Pride has a program to get a free one: https://www.pointofpride.org/free-femme-shapewear

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[โ€“] FMC8456@lemm.ee 12 points 1 month ago

Who says you can't, I've done it before and it's fine, just gotta push the bits to the side or tuck them down below but it still works.

[โ€“] yuri@pawb.social 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

whats funny is they genuinely would look better to me if they had realistic proportions, iโ€™m attracted to humans not skeletons w/ass

[โ€“] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

"This body is unattainable for me personally, thus it is unrealistic on others in media" ok buddy

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[โ€“] desktop_user@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

adjust your standards, acknowledge Rem supremacy.

[โ€“] Shotgun_Alice@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Crow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

If I had bottom surgery and one of these, I'd pack. The bulge in there is the best part

[โ€“] zaphodb2002@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 month ago

Stupid sexy spiders. I'm pretty sure Mark Bagley's Ultimate Spider-Man is the root of many of my own insecurities.

[โ€“] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Ass always looks good in tight fitting suits, doesn't need to be a phat round booty ( อกยฐ อœส– อกยฐ)

[โ€“] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh honey that is not what bottom surgery means here

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[โ€“] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

how 196 users count: :3 :4 :5

[โ€“] Dpof@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago
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