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Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I'm intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don't know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn't care less about NSFW stuff, I don't search for it specifically, but my day won't be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn't be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 96 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Why’d you start an instance?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 44 points 1 year ago (3 children)

We started a regular fediverse instance because we wanted a space for queer and gender diverse folk to be safe, on something that wasn't Mastodon or Mastodon derived.

Once we had that running, we spun up a lemmy instance just to check it out, and it sat there basically only used by me, until Reddit Day came along, and our userbase went from 3 to 3000 in the space of a week. So now, our lemmy instance serves the same purpose as our main instance, which is to provide a safe space for our community, but focused on lemmy/the threadiverse

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It’s good to hear that even small instances benefitted from Reddit Day and not just lemmy.world

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Every instance that pre-dated Reddit Day saw crazy growth during the migration.

We were around long before lemmy.world, and despite the small userbase, we had a couple of popular (at the time) communities used by the rest of the lemmyverse.

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[–] Tigwyk@lemmy.vrchat-dev.tech 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah this one right here. I run my own little instance, made it easy to choose.

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[–] gabe@literature.cafe 40 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm the admin of mine and also like books and writing

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[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 30 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I started with Lemmy.world but then moved to Lemmy.nz because it was faster.

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[–] charonn0@startrek.website 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I followed the Daystrom Institute community from reddit to startrek.website.

I have a few different accounts. One on lemmy.world, but that's been down so much, I decided I needed a backup, and quite frankly, the fact that there's an entire Trek instance made my choice of a backup a no-brainer.

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[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 24 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Beehaw cuz I heard they had strong moderation and don't shy away from defederation. Also bees.

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[–] Cantankerousnuts@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Shit just works. Except when it goes down. But mostly. Still, the name is fire.

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[–] DavyJones@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Piracy πŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ

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[–] OverfedRaccoon@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Started on kbin.social and beehaw.org. Realized I liked Lemmy just a little more early on and stuck with Beehaw. But then they started to defederate from larger instances with open signups. So I joined lemmy.world to be part of the bigger picture. Then it got too big and people want to play the DDoS game, so now I've got this alt on lemm.ee as well. We'll see where it goes from here. πŸ˜‚

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[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's an instance for my country so I just joined that one.

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[–] Teritz@feddit.de 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The shark, mostly.

Also because I'm on their Calckey instance too.

And this: blobcat, box

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[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 year ago

The server is hosted in my country, the TLD belongs to my country and the current admins seem chill and dedicated to make it work. Hopefully that's the recipe to it's longevity.

Once they add some donation method I'll gladly donate and if they need help I'll gladly offer my technical knowledge.

[–] Dr_Cog@mander.xyz 14 points 1 year ago

I'm a scientist so I joined the instance that seemed to match my interests the best. I like browsing Local and seeing all the other science posts as well

[–] ahal@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 year ago

I'm Canadian eh

I googled about lemmy, found a blog post to introduce the whole concept, they linked an instance recommendation thing based on (if I understood correctly) the uptime, (de)federation and user count of the instance, and I just clicked one of the suggestions. So many posts claimed that it doesn't make a great difference that I eventually decided to toss my overoptimisation habit and take what was suggested to me.

But I'm still learning my way around here, who knows if this will stay my forever home.

[–] stark@qlemmy.com 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] Quill0@lemmy.digitalfall.net 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I didn't want to have my stuff out of my control so I made my own instance.

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[–] Mandy@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

I missread beehaw as yeehaw, was only slightly dissapointed when I noticed.

[–] crunchpaste@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

When the reddit went bad I started looking for anti-corporate communities that would migrate.

r/cyberpunk was the first place I checked, but there was no discussion about migrating at all there. r/selfhosted was another obvious idea but people there seemed very reluctant as well.

The only sub that pointed to some clear migration path was r/piracy. I really appreciate the integrity of dbzer0 in this situation.

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[–] Psythik@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

IDK I just kinda ended up here. The domain is easy to memorize, I guess.

(Edit: And it never goes down cause no one uses it.)

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I didn't pick one.

I spread that shit out over a bunch of instances.

Decentralized myself lol. There's no need to think of lemmy in terms of a single home. You can do that, but I prefer to think of it as a bunch of crash pads. Bounce between them as needed, maintain the accounts, and even if one homie can't put you up for the night, another one can.

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[–] chrisbit@leminal.space 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm the admin. Why? Because I enjoy doing, it's in the spirit of decentralisation, and I didn't want to risk being part of an instance that defederates from leftist instances like Lemmygrad or Hexbear.

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[–] Smurfe@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I chose Lemmy World simply because it was there. It was literally the first one that popped up and I had no clue how Lemmy worked so I chose that one.

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[–] Kratos@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yarr πŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ

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[–] doot@social.bug.expert 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I just made my own... I buy domains like steam games, never to be used/played, so finding a use for one is fun

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[–] serfraser@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It was suggested by the sign up process at the top of which domain I should join. I don't remember how, it's already a blur, but afterwards I saw people saying the registration process needed to add a way of directing users to smaller instances as a thing to lighten the load and stop everyone going to lemmy.world and it confused me because that's literally what happened to me.

Anyway I also noticed it had a steam deck community and that was good enough for me.

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's funny, I created kind of a the same thread in !fediverse@lemmy.ml a few minutes ago

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Oh really?

I'm gonna check it out haha.

[–] Tiritibambix@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago

Because only lemmy.ml was popular 2 years ago.

[–] HReflex@yiffit.net 10 points 1 year ago

Was looking for a Furry server and yiffit was too funny for me not to join

[–] Aviandelight@mander.xyz 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I like science and Mander has a lot of neat science communities. I also keep a back up account for Lemmy.world.

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[–] backhdlp@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago

I saw blahaj and I was sold

[–] dan@upvote.au 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm running my own instance, which made it easy to choose which instance to use 😁

Absolute big brain move

[–] viridian@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I joined sh.itjustworks because of the fact that it's powered by renewable energy and it's bilingual with French and English. As someone who wants to stop climate change and someone who is learning French, it made the most sense for me to join this instance. I have no alts, but if I were to make one it would probably be on lemmy.world, blajah.zone, or dbzer0.

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[–] Zink@programming.dev 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I started out on Lemmy.world because it seemed like it was going to be home to the most communities, and people seemed to like & respect the admin.

But I also work on software, and I’m here for all the computer nerd shit Lemmy has to offer. Plus World has had uptime issues. So programming.dev seemed like a good home instance to try out, even if I’m interacting with a bunch of communities on World too.

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[–] skillissuer@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

moved there from lemmy.world because of downtime and also unclear, sloppy defederation policies. i've never seen a clear explanation why it took a month to defederate exploding heads (allowing their userbase to grow 3x) and week for rammy site, but hexbear gets defederated "preemptively". ???

also now i see beehaw content which is something i didn't expected, but it's cool

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Trans rights! Also, shonk πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ¦ˆ

[–] MushuChupacabra@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I chose lemmy.world for my main account, mostly for the name. Just sounds like a central place to be. I've bailed on one instance on account of them dragging their feet on defederating from exploding heads.

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[–] psysok@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I first joined Lemmy.ml and beehaw because when I joined those were pretty much the only active English language instances. I moved to lemmy.ca because Lemmy.ml started going down more when redditors showed up, and I didn't like beehaw's "defederate now and sort it out later" attitude. Plus I figured going with a mid sized instance is best. They aren't going to get overloaded because they are too big, and aren't going to shut down due to lack of interest either.

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[–] Infynis@midwest.social 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was told, by someone I know in a local Discord, that it was a reddit replacement for Midwest leftists. At the time I didn't know what Lemmy was. Now that I'm using it in place of reddit, it's performing very well. I like our local instance a lot. I am tempted to move to Startrek.website though, just because I'm a huge nerd

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[–] guts@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Found some power tripping mods in some instances, lemmy.ml seems fairly neutral.

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[–] thesilencenoise@waveform.social 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I started on Beehaw but created a second account on lemmy.world since I wanted to make sure I wasn't missing any content. Once the slowdowns started I took a deeper dive into different instances and saw there was one centered around music and production and this would fit me best. I still use all three but I still think this will be home for me.

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[–] space_frog@lemmyfly.org 8 points 1 year ago

I like planes

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