I live next to one in Texas. On numerous occasions a very exasperated young lady has pounded on my door asking if I'd seen an old man wandering about.
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Ah, the 'leave the elders on the ice floe' method of senior care.
This is precisely how my grandfather died. The VA knew he had severe dementia but weren't paying attention and he wandered away and ended up passing away. My family sued the VA, not for money, but for them to tighten up their rules about dealing with veterans with dementia. We won, although I've never followed up to see if there was any significant impact from the rule changes.
Honest question, why are people so obsessed with living? I’d want to be euthanized at the first sign of dementia. Just give me like a week to get my affairs in order. It’s bizarre that people would rather exist as mindless husks than die peacefully at a time of their choosing.
Maybe it’s fear. Most humans live and think like animals whose impulse to survive overrides rationality. Or is there another explanation?
I genuinely want to understand.
I cannot speak for anyone else, but I am an atheist and I do not believe in an afterlife, so I want every single second of life on this planet I can possibly get. I have had a lot of bad things in my life, including ongoing serious health problems. I have been to 10 on the pain scale multiple times. Dementia doesn't scare me. I understand why some people don't want to go out that way because it was the way my father went out, but he went out angry because he was an angry man and eventually didn't even know why he was angry. I certainly understand why Robin Williams chose to end his life because his mind was his gift to the world.
But I'm not like that. I want to be alive as long as I still know what life is.
I'm personally of the opinion that if I (consistently) can't remember the day before, life isn't worth living.
Doesn't matter if I'm happy every day. Because I feel like memories are what make me, me.
But if I can remember a whole week or even a month I'm not so sure anymore. In a week I could at least learn something and recall what I did yesterday and the day before that.
No man don't waste your life. Euthanization Is for Suckers. Be a man take a boardroom down with you.
Lmao, why am I not surprised that when I see someplace I grew up around in the news, it's only for bad reasons? Still sad tho, tbh
What is this news format with the headline as an image macro in meme format. That's genius.
Why don’t they have cameras on every door that sends an alert and a video of who is going in and out? This seems like a solved problem. They can even do facial recognition on some of them.
Probably a workers’ rights issue there. Do you want your employer tracking you?
No, I don't. But I already have a workplace with cameras at every entrance and exit, pin pads at every "sensitive" door, and a name badge with rfid in it so they can track my every movement via sensors in every hallway.
And no, it's not a prison. (It just feels like one, amiright?)
They probably do, but that's only helpful if you care what door they left out. In my experience, there are cameras for ad hoc monitoring and if needed for legal later. If elopement is a risk, doors are locked except main entries - unless you're dealing with psych, the all external doors are locked. Old folk homes and psych... They're hiring the minimal amount of qualified staff and minimal staff period - and paying equally minimal for a job that can amount to intensive care/security guard/house keeper at an extreme pace.... Shits gonna happen.