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No official diagnosis, but I'm pretty sure I have it. My eldest was actually diagnosed with it recently though.
I've learned some shortcuts that let me do math in my head, albeit incredibly slowly as compared to others. If I'm at a computer then I just use that for math instead though whenever possible. It wasn't until I took calculus that I really became able to do any of the basic math operations in my head as anything beyond memorization though. I have to break up the simplest of math problems into an algebra equation to solve it, and doing that just takes time.
I only wear an analog wristwatch now, because I've realized if I go about a week without having to read an analog clock face, I have to re-learn how to read it. It's never a quick glance and know the time though. The hour hand close to the next hour throws me off about 100% of the time.
I also just can't track the month and day of the month in my head. Tracking the day of the week works fine, but the date doesn't just update for me. I have to look up what the current date is and then just remember it as best I can for the rest of that day. If you ask me on the following day what the date is, I will just give back the prior date unless I've looked it up again though.
I'm also hopeless with directional navigation. North, South, East, West? I've memorized the directions some roads run in, but it's taken me years to have any chance at all of going the correct direction on the road without* GPS navigation running.
I also recently learned about hyperlexia, and I suspect I have that as well. Super great at reading/literature stuff. Super bad at math. Everyone flabbergasted. heh.
Edit: fixed mention of GPS navigation to correctly reflect that I can't drive much without it running.
This sounds like me so much. I was one of those kids who loved reading and was reading way above my level but couldn't write for shit. Same with the analog vs digital, doesn't matter how much I practice it still takes me a solid 30 seconds to do all the "math" in my head to read analog unless I use it regularly. I swear the more I hear from other neurodivergents, the more I go, wait a second...
hah, yep. Very much sounds similar.
It was a bit disheartening that when my eldest was diagnosed with dyscalculia, they were just like: It sounds like you've already taught her some workarounds for it, and that's basically all you can do. It's not as well understood yet, so we don't really know what else to do to help still. The linked article kind of implies there something for young enough children, but doesn't go into details at all. The clinic we saw though, just makes it sound like those one on one treatments are just learning these workarounds...
I've never been diagnosed with anything myself, but hearing all the things that were pointed out as symptoms for my child, and it's all the same stuff I did/do... I imagine I probably could get diagnosed, but I don't think it would help with anything at this point.