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Two separate unrelated people.
Both in their twenties
Invites them into second/third base consensual relations and then it turns into rough sex.
I think that it's an absolutely reasonable assumption that he is into younger women and doesn't stop after he gets the green light.
But the article is light on details, and he at least deserves to have his say in court over it.
Why do you this is an absolutely reasonable assumption?
Into younger women is pretty normal, but raping isn’t normal. Do you mean it’s a reasonable assumption given these accusations?
Not who you replied to, and Gaiman may be innocent, but we should listen and find out. The "absolutely reasonable assumption" is probably based on his age and how he was raised.
I don't know how many men you dealt with that were raised with the mindset of "if she said yes once it means she says yes ALL THE TIME," but some men feel that way. Hell a very famous and still popular movie has "Tell me more. Tell me more. Did she put up a fight?" In the opening of the movie. It seems kind of reasonable to me to assume being raised that "no" is something you have to "fight through" might mess with head.
I'm not trying to justify any actually actions. I'm just saying I would listen to the victims before I dismiss the accusations just because I like the art he makes.
One character saying something in a movie is not the equivalent of anyone being raised this guy. Also the existence of people like that doesn’t make it a reasonable assumption that this is how the guy thinks or behaves.
FFS you're just cherry picking your way through anything anyone says.
Argue anyone's whole comment in context or just go be a fanboy. You don't really mind if you don't like it but you're retorts are weak.
The first three statements in my post support the fourth. Just because you don't like my conclusion doesn't make it unreasonable.
From the light details in the article, here's what's not in question: He came on to his nanny. He came on to his fan. Two separate unrelated people. They are both half his age. They both have unsubstantiated but like stories.
Now any of three things could be lies or deceptions or something else. That's why if he has something to say he deserves to be heard.
We don't have any form of denial from his side. No claims of I don't know these people or you don't have all the facts. No statements of collusion. I would assume his lawyer said don't say anything. Well this is fine and does not make him guilty it also doesn't give us even the slightest indication that any of this is a fabrication.
The next problem is when I say it's reasonable that is my subjective opinion. If you know him and have a long personal knowledge of his history maybe you have a different opinion than me.
Based on the information that's brought forward substantiated and unsubstantiated I'm saying that this is a reasonable and likely direction that this will head. That is unless they settle out of court and what you won't hear about it again.