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Eh, it's better to communicate with your partner and give them a chance to get you there by other means.
This assumes that the person faking it expects continued interaction and/or safety. Women often fake it with flings when they simply want things to finish and don’t want to have an awkward conversation with the person they never intend to see again. They also fake it to avoid confrontation due to perceived emasculation.
Now, if you feel safe in your non-transient relationship, this is literally the best advice in the world.
My god why would you have sex with a person you never intend on speaking to again?
Cuz sex is fun. I’m not gonna slut shame.
So they can fake an orgasm obviously.