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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by BlastboomStrice@mander.xyz to c/memes@lemmy.ml
 

Happens about 20mins after I wake up.

Image transcription:Random npc spongebob fish character looking miserable holding a cup during a sunset and another overlayed image of the same guy on the left with the same look.

It is captioned with:

When you already checked your usual 5 apps and don't know what else to do with your day:

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[–] Num10ck@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

sign up for a class/activity, wear a conversation piece.

[–] BlastboomStrice@mander.xyz 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Smart move the latter, ~didn't think it.

About the former, I recently realized in practice that it's important to pick up activities etc. that you like and that attract people you can bond with. For example I like weightlefting at gym, but I realized it attracts so many people with repulsive ideologies, while I tried dancing and mobility classes the same gym offers and the environment was much much better, I found many good people there. (I still do weightlifting though and I found some good people there too.)

Plus, voicing your opinions helps a lot to filter people (I'm struggling a lot with this though).

[–] grrgyle 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Plus, voicing your opinions helps a lot to filter people (I'm struggling a lot with this though).

This is massive. "Filtering" is the perfect way to put it. If you don't risk saying something potentially disagreeable, then no one will ever know who you are.

That goes for both repulsive and inclusive ideologies, I guess, but I definitely prefer the latter (this is an example of one of your "filtering" statements - now spectators to this conversation know I value inclusivity).