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People constantly gatekeep metal music and it has become the norm for when I talk about metal with a stranger.

That's why I want to know what the weirdest thing people gatekeep?

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[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Does anyone else feel like they used to have the perspective that others were gate keeping them when they were much younger?

I feel like I used to think like this, but I had the realization that I just wasn't asking the right questions or around the right influences/environment. Like with music, I'm a metal head, but it isn't a definitive part of me like it was when I was younger. I'm unlikely to engage with anyone on the topic and would likely have trouble remembering a bunch of info if I was put on the spot.