Vaping would be a deal breaker for me. Besides being douchy, I just plain don’t like it, just how I hate smoking. Piercings I probably wouldn’t like outa taste, but someone who can think for themselves is a must otherwise I’d get bored quickly. Not being able to cook would be somewhat problematic as I can’t cook well either, soooo…

[–] jlow@beehaw.org 21 points 5 months ago

You can learn to cook together 😻

[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

The type of person that wants someone that can't think for them selves....isn't really that high on the mental flag pole of life.

But the saying is code for a bunch of stuff, I really doubt that they mean they are searching for someone with severe brain damage and has trouble performing even the basic functions of life.

[–] kautau@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Yeah that just means “someone who asks her husband permission to do most things that aren’t chores like it’s the handmaiden’s tale”