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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
- Gender Spectrum // Resources for youth, parents and family, educators, mental health professionals and faith leaders.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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I don't really mean "my fault" like I'm sorry for what I am, just that I'm out of place here and not fitting into this ridiculous world of hunams (apparently I'm Spathi now so I call them that ๐ ) smoothly, easily. I like to think that I'm not sorry in the least for anything about myself that isn't a wrong choice I've made, and kinda pride myself on that. No one should be sorry for existing but anyone who causes avoidable harm should seek to change. It's a pretty simple rule that I think serves well as a kind of root, most basic kind of thing for living life: if you're hurting someone, stop. If you're not, then do you.
As for the bus thing, yeah, that's the idea :3 Partly struggling with my anxiety problems but also just learning how to get around and having a chance to directly see and experience some of the city. Getting some idea of how to get around, how to get to and from places, how to use apps (mostly Google Maps <.<) to guide myself, figure out when and where and how I'm gonna have to wait for buses, how to orient myself and pick and board the right bus (as opposed to the left one, which has the same number but a different letter and goes the other way)... Making the mistakes on the way to/from Taco Bell was most definitely part of the point nodnod I really do not want to have to figure out all' the basics en route to something important because even little oopses can totally ruin me. Anxiety's still hellish, though :-\
Thankies!