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[–] krellor@beehaw.org 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

You don't deserve to have people who constantly flake out. If they are always cancelling and never initiating activities, invest the time and energy into your own well-being, hobbies, and other friendships. Best of luck with what sounds like some health challenges!

[–] Gaywallet@beehaw.org 3 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah I know I typically cut people like this out of my life but knowing when it's a pattern and not just bad luck and life being busy right now is kinda where things are at right now. I'm hoping it's the latter but I'm leaning towards the former and I think I'm going to assert a boundary next time we plan something

[–] krellor@beehaw.org 4 points 6 months ago