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[–] DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone 120 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Reddit became too America focused. Most of the posts were about America or assumed everyone reading was American. It felt very exclusionary.

[–] princessyukon@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think this will remain a problem on any platform that includes enough Americans. The general public in America just seems unaware of anything outside America.

I think this stems from their education system, what they (don't) broadcast on mass-media and how normal and even laudable they consider fanatical nationalism to be (did you know they require children to swear devotion to the nation state every day at school!?).

In any case, I don't think this is a problem that any platform that wants to include Americans can avoid.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 year ago

(did you know they require children to swear devotion to the nation state every day at school!?).

Untrue. Happens in some areas, but far from universal. However, it is weird (self-loathing american reporting).

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's also that it's legitimately unusual to travel to another country more than once or twice before you're an adult because of the geography.

[–] princessyukon@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean, the same geographic constraints are true of Australia, New Zealand and Canada but they don't have anything near the level of insularity.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Geographic constraints yet, economic constraints not as much

[–] t0fr@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well I think ideally that's what different instances should help. I'm on a Canadian instance with a lot of Canadian specific communities. I've seen instances of many other specific countries. That should theoretically counter that whole experience on Reddit

[–] imPastaSyndrome@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] charles@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

Which honestly has been one of my favourite features of Lemmy so far. I can browse All to see what everyone is talking about, I can browse Subscribed to see what I care about and I can browse Local to see what Canadians care about.

[–] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I saw this complaint on reddit a lot, but at the end of the day, it was a US based site. Of course there will be mostly Americans and they will default to that understanding.

Also, the US is a large country. It's not like Europe where you're a day trip away from 5 other countries. Most Americans can't afford travel outside the US, so they only have exposure to the many cultures within the US.

The hate Americans get for not catering discussion on a US based site to the global community is really what's strange.

[–] pingveno@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Most Americans can’t afford travel outside the US, so they only have exposure to the many cultures within the US.

You can travel in a straight line over land 2700 miles from Washington to Florida without leaving the United States. Make a foray into Canada and you can travel a 4300 mile long straight line from Alaska to Florida without leaving a country that speaks majority English.

[–] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

I haven't heard that before, but yeah, the US is huge.

[–] authed@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm pretty sure that if you visit all states and provinces, it would be a lot more than 4300 miles

[–] pingveno@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

True that. I was just looking at straight lines (or what "straight line" is when you're traveling across a sphere)

[–] ShittyKopper@lemmy.w.on-t.work 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The hate Americans get for not catering discussion on a US based site to the global community is really what’s strange.

I just want y'all to stop saying shit like "oh xyz is like 20$ right now" like it's just as cheap everywhere else in the world.

[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks for your 2 cents.

[–] rusty_spoon@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My other irk is the next group that assumes everyone who isn't American must be from Europe.

[–] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Europe was just an example, though they do tend to be the most unjustly hateful of Americans.

[–] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I appreciate that. What bugs me is when people don't read the name of the sub they're in though - if it's askUK or casualuk then maybe it's not the place to talk about America, particularly when it's an advice thread about laws for example.

Just some self awareness would be good.

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's just a demographics game. Most reddit users live in the US.

[–] DarkSpectrum@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Depends how you define user. If I am googling for answers to a problem and find it on Reddit, am I a user?

[–] WarmSoda@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

It's also a company that's based on the US.

[–] briongloid@aussie.zone 7 points 1 year ago

And the arrogance about it was unbelievable, it was extremely common behaviour.

[–] obinice@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Christ, yes. Every other comment or post was something that assumed everyone was in the USA, or that they were the greatest most perfect wonderful nation and all others are basically hell on earth.

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[–] varzaman@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Literally full of shit lmao. Who on reddit mainstream is talking about how the US is the greatest place on Earth.

Usually its the entire other way around where Reddit is acting like the apocalypse is about to start at any point.

Here's a new one for this thread. "People who complain about Americans over the dumbest things". It's straight up like you have a chip on your shoulder.

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 4 points 1 year ago

Complaining about Americans is possibly the most reddit thing ever, lmao, regardless of where the user is from.

[–] Contend6248@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But that were some good opportunities to dunk on the world epicenter, i've always took them

[–] shiftymccool@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

What id like to see on Lemmy is less America-hate... Or just hating on countries in general. Hatable humans live in countries, let's talk about them instead of everybody in that country. "Gunshot story? Must be America!" Gets old really quick

[–] gjghkk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hate many countries, USA included. But not the people. Heck I even hate my own country.

The thing is, the people don't run those countries.

But, also I do need to mention that the laws that are being made do affect the society and their ideas.

[–] Contend6248@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

This, nationalism is just the worst. You've achieved nothing by being born in a certain country, waving that flag around proudly thinking you're superior to anyone else is just something i can't understand.

[–] l3mming@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Nice try, American person.