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This quote from Worf (ST:TNG). Admittedly I’m still working at it and by no means perfect, but it does help when thoughts like this from the past arise:
It’s simplistic and sounds easier than it is given such complicated topics. But on the surface, it does help me to remember why it’s ultimately not in my best interest to think about destructive/negative things.
You can't heal if you tear the wound open again and only the dead never scar over. Surviving is hard enough, you don't need to carry the weight of those you hate.