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This may seem kind of stupid but I am kind of stupid, is there a list somewhere of phrases that are stupid or insensitive racially or gender biased? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I just got up from conversation with a couple of older black men, that I said "well I got to go back to work and start cracking the whip." And it occurred to me then that it was probably a really insensitive stupid thing to say.

Sadly, it hadn't occurred to me until it's already said.

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[–] 520@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yep. Can be things you wouldn't even think about too. For example the word 'spastic' isn't offensive in the US, but is deeply offensive in the UK, similar to the word 'retard'

[–] HandBreadedTools@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Both of those terms are offensive in the US, too. People that use it just choose to not value the input from those that they offend.

[–] 520@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

TIL, and I'm sorry to hear that :(