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[–] answersplease77@lemmy.world 110 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I live in a very strict and conservative country and once a young girl passed out in front of everyone. Her sister was panicking screaming at her to try to breath. I'm usually a savior vigilante type of guy whenever and wherever the situation but sadly at that time I was wearing shorts. So my immediate reaction was to nope out and pretend I didn't see anything. They had to bring another woman who was working close by to do CPR and resuscitate her. The girl then survived obviously. I later had feelings of guilt that I did not step in to help, but in the same time I could've been jailed for touching her and worse get beaten by everyone there. what an awful dilemma ...

[–] Daqu@feddit.de 84 points 1 year ago

Just take the shorts off before helping

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 55 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Was it illegal there to touch a woman while wearing shorts?

[–] qarbone@lemmy.world 66 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I believe it's more the fear of looking informal or unprofessional. Without more formal clothes, he was afraid of looking like a random chancer copping a feel instead of someone trying to save a life. Pretty silly in retrospect but definitely a possible fear in the moment.

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 45 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't know why but my brain went the direction of "it's harder to hide a random boner in shorts" but don't ask me why my brain is fucked that way.

[–] bobman@unilem.org 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's not you. Saying 'wearing shorts' is why you didn't give CPR is fucking stupid.

[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

He said he could have been jailed or beaten for touching her. The shorts probably just made the situation worse.