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[–] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 87 points 1 year ago (7 children)

In order to use a defibrillator, you have to remove everything from a person's chest. This includes the bra and to even shave chest hair to be able to apply the pads correctly.

I've always thought that it would be troublesome for a man to have to apply a defibrillator to a woman if someone assumes foul play because of their own issues.

Life over dignity in that situation, everyone else be damned.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 45 points 1 year ago (3 children)

If I saw someone with a defibrillator ripping the clothes off an unconscious woman, I don't think I would suspect foul play.

[–] Notorious_handholder@lemmy.world 80 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You might not, but you gotta remember that the public is also filled with idiots

[–] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 42 points 1 year ago (1 children)

While my cousin's neighbor is fighting a law suit because, a woman (cousin's neighbor) used defibrillator on another woman(when her heart stopped) , and other woman is now suing the neighbor for some minor marks from defibrillator. Mostly neighbor will win the case, but she has to appear in court now. Makes me feel so angry and i don't even know the neighbor lady.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 38 points 1 year ago (2 children)

in these cases sometimes the insurance makes you sue even if you don't want to because otherwise they won't pay for any of the debt

My colleague has a situation where he's being sued by his neighbor for minor burns after a firework accident a few years ago 4th of July. The neighbor doesn't want to sue him but has no choice to get the medical services paid for.

[–] Chreutz@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wonder if judges could be persuaded to levy punitive damages against the insurance company for this kind of thing. "Your honor, we're only wasting your time with this because the insurance company is making us sue. Could you confiscate a few hundred million dollars from them for this worthless harassment?"

[–] PickTheStick@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

At least in America, all the judges are either in the pocket of the businesses or have their hands tied by laws passed by legislators who are in the pocket of businesses. Fuck them businesses.

[–] GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

The ultimate goal with insurance companies is to have you give them money and they never have to give you anything in return. If they can get you to sue the other person, the insurance company doesn't have to pay. To them it's a win-win.

Weakly regulated insurance is a scam

[–] Chetzemoka@startrek.website 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

And you have to remember that there's a difference between what some random idiot on the street thinks and what someone can actually be prosecuted for.

Jesus Christ, do the fucking CPR

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Surely there are good Samaritan laws even in the US?

[–] Patches@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The court of public opinion, and cancel culture, do not care about good Samaritan laws.

News that destroys reputations can spread faster and further than the truth. Most people still think the McDonalds coffee lady is a gold digger after 20 years of corrections.

[–] PickTheStick@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There are, but remember that defenses come into play after being sued. So you can still go through the mental nightmare (because let's be real, a rich person isn't going to be doing CPR, and certainly isn't going to care about being sued, so only your typical person who could lose everything in this scenario) of being a defendant in a lawsuit until the judge agrees to toss it or you go to court and are found not liable.

[–] Cringe2793@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

The public scrutiny and the mark on your record does not go away even if you're found not liable. Once you are even accused of anything like this, it's there forever. People will think you got off on a "technicality".

If you're a man facing this, your life is ruined. May as well move away and never come back.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

It's not just about being prosecuted, but publicly judged and shamed for.

Never said I wouldn't do the CPR. Only pointing out that in an emergency situation that people are fucking stupid and that a random idiot could easily interfere violently with what they think might be sexual assault

[–] Meowoem@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

I agree do the CPR but my fear would be getting kicked in the head not sued

[–] circuscritic@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Which is why all the most clever rapists carry defibs.

If you EVER see a man carrying a defibrillator, 9 of 10 times, he's a rapist.

What's worse, the extra super clever ones, ride around in ambulances with disguises to make them look like paramedics.

Whenever I see a rapist mobile with flashing lights, I run them off the road.

I've saved at least a dozen women already this year.

[–] CADmonkey@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

To be fair there are rapist mobiles and they do have flashing lights, they just don't say "Ambulance" on them.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

I could imagine someone thinking "wow he took her bra off, that was unnecessary". Since correct defib use isn't really common knowledge

[–] Misconduct@startrek.website 43 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Imagine dying because some old puritan assholes decided at some point that female nips are inherently offensive but male nips are fine. Humanity can be so idiotic sometimes

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 year ago

Yeah that wouldn't be what prevents a man from giving a woman CPR. It would be the potential for someone to cry foul play.

[–] NotSoCoolWhip@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

No, they decided both were bad. It wasn't until 1935 that male nips were legal to open-carry

[–] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I just did red cross CPR and AED training last week, and the materials said the clothes all need to come off (or pulled up or whatever - off the chest) but chest hair doesn't need to be shaved. Presumably the instructions change periodically.

[–] cybersandwich@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Its probably much better to have a shaved chest, but lets be realistic. In a situation where CPR and an AED are being used, 1. you probably arent going to have a razor handy 2. the sub-optimal contact with the skin is the least of you (or the patient's) worries.

[–] skiguy0123@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I took a course a couple of years agao and I believe they said the AEDs come with a razor

[–] kilodelta@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can confirm. Almost all defibrillators come with a pack of additional supplies - including a dry razor

[–] HewlandRower@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

They also teach now to use the provided additional set of pads to basically wax the chest.

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[–] TommySalami@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're not going to take time to shave, every second counts. The solution is the extra adhesive pads most every AED has. You plant one of those on the the chest hair and rip, and you can get an effectively hairless spot for your lead.

Dry shaving a hairy spot takes like 5 seconds. We're not talking about whipping out a hot towel and a straight razor.

[–] PickTheStick@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

The instructions say that chest hair comes off if the pad isn't sticking effectively to the chest. That means shaving if you have a razor, or using the second adhesives (kid/adult sizes usually come in the same AED kit) as ad hoc waxing devices.

[–] answersplease77@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It does not have to be life over dignity. There can be a middle ground they could at least provide a cover while doing their thing. I know a teen girl who changed school, did therapy and tried to sue because she once had a seizure and they stripped her naked in front everyone to save her. Her "friends" took video of her and spread it all over their school. As awful as it sounds I'm not making this up.

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 38 points 1 year ago

Fuck the other kids for taking and sharing videos, people suck.

[–] Cringe2793@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yup, and that's exactly why men don't help. They tried to save her, but got sued. It's really not worth it.

[–] Turun@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

I'd expect the people who shared footage to be sued, not the first responders.

[–] Angry_Maple@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why does almost no one clear the area in these posted experiences? That was covered in my (very) basic first aid training. It was emphasized, and it came with a heavy reminder that patient care should be a very high priority. I'm honestly just suprised to read all of these.

Y'all need better trainers and better Good Samaritan laws to protect you. What a world where someone just dies when they could have been saved by someone who was already nearby. Society sucks. Neither "angle" is great.

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[–] Fapp@lemmynsfw.com 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Nah, some random persons life is not worth my freedom.

[–] thepianistfroggollum@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not sure why you think your freedom would be in jeopardy for providing CPR

[–] Cringe2793@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Because you could get accused of SA.

[–] thepianistfroggollum@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not realistically, no. Good Samaritan laws exist, and if you do CPR properly there's a 0% chance that it wouldn't be clearly obvious.

When you do CPR right, you will break ribs off the sternum (unless it's a child).

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[–] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

And that random person may someday be your daughter, and the bystanders some other men who agree with you.

[–] Fapp@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 year ago

Doubtful. I recognize the world is a shitty place so I had a surgery to prevent me from bringing more people into it.

To be clear, because somehow this was lost in translation, I wish it was as cut and dry as giving CPR to someone who needs it. But the world, again, is a shitty place.

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[–] radioactiveradio@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

Sounds like a problem for women with chest hair.

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

you dont have to shave chest hair, wtf are you talking about?

[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You don't have to, but some defibrillator kits include a razor, and when I took a CPR class, we were taught how to remove hair using either a razor or an extra set of defib pads.

[–] Hiuhokiguess@reddthat.com 6 points 1 year ago

That’s for excessive hair. Just make sure you both aren’t in a puddle.

[–] shortly2139@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They're constantly updating best practices, the kits come with a little razor now. Though we got told to apply the pad on the hair and then pull it off, effectively waxing the area. It's apparently to get better contact. Personally I think shaving would be more effective, suppose you do what you have to in the situation.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Waxing would be faster and if there's still hair you could shave it. More painful of course but if it wakes them up you can stop there.