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As title states.

But also, can I get some advice from the community? After a long while, I finally lifted the veil over my eyes and came to terms with the fact that I am totally and unapologetically homosexual. But I've been married for a long time so we're trying to make it work and just extend ourselves to polyamory. I've booted up a dating profile, but should I include that I am a baby gay? Do I include my open relationship? Or are those things to talk about in person? Any advice?

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I've been married for 25 years so I predate dating apps. But I would make sure being poly is really something you both want, because I have found all the poly people I know have had their relationships fail no matter how secure they are in them and in being poly. I think you have relationship work to do before considering an app.