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[–] LanternEverywhere@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (6 children)

You can't say "we" on a fediverse system, because the post is gonna be seen by everyone everywhere. I'm not on sh.itjust.works, I'm viewing your post on kbin, and it's also gonna be seen on all the other lemmy servers that are federated with yours.

[–] sik0fewl@kbin.social 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] bogdugg@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There appears to be some miscommunication between instances in this thread regarding how posts appear from other communities. I think many arguments are stemming from this, so to clear things up:

It is trivial for users on sh.itjust.works to see what is posted where. It is less obvious for kbin.social users to do the same. Personally, I think it's a kbin issue for not surfacing enough post information.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's pretty awful. Can you at least get the instance if you hover over "main"?

[–] bogdugg@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

Yes on desktop, no on mobile (as mentioned already).

[–] sik0fewl@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

On mobile, you need to click into post to see. It's one of my biggest annoyances with kbin.

[–] match@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This is more of a problem about English making no distinction between "we" (us including you) and "we" (us excluding you)

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's related, but it should still be pretty clear from context.

If I say, "the current President doesn't represent us," I'm obviously not talking about the whole world, or even the whole country, but the specific subgroup that I'm a part of (i.e. maybe my demographic, political party, etc). If I say, "we need to take responsibility for the state of the planet," I'm talking about everyone in the whole world, not just me and my specific demographic or political party.

It would be a lot clearer if we had better words in English, but it is usually quite clear from context. In this case, this is posted to the sh.itjust.works' "main" community, and the post specifically mentions sh.itjust.works in the image that's linked. It's pretty clear it's talking specifically about the sh.itjust.works instance.

[–] neutron@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The same mistake could be made, since OP assumed the audience is the SIJW instance, thus using inclusive we, when actually its the whole federation, the exclusive we could have been used.

[–] magnetosphere@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yup. Im reading this on kbin too, and my initial reaction was “Beehaw is defederated from kbin? When did that happen?!?”

[–] Anonymousllama@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, really wish people would mention their instance, it's more of a guessing game trying to work out what people they're actually referring to