Yeah, might. It's good good to question it even if that's the case. Maybe next time someone will think twice about doing something similar if it's not consensual.

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Very tough, there's an obvious power dynamic.

[–] mikeboltonshair@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get the sentiment but fuck.. every time I see this type of comment it makes it seem as though women are meek powerless individuals it’s like backhanded feminism

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The point is the gender doesn't matter at all. The power dynamic is the core of the problem

[–] mikeboltonshair@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Okay fair enough, but stating it like that means that it’s impossible for anyone to fight against that? So once again people have no agency?

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Huh? Laws are created all the time to protect against this issue but the topic clearly isn't fully solved

[–] mikeboltonshair@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago

I get it’s still a problem I agree, my point is it shouldn’t always just be assumed this is the case that a person has no ability to fend off anyone with a larger power dynamic

[–] JohnnyCanuck@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

Well that's kind of what the original person said and I gave another option. You don't know. I don't know. But saying they're banging because she changed what she said isnt fair either.