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Do you wear the mask of age over the eyes of your inner child? (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 days ago by j4k3@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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At 40, I am convinced that we cosplay as adult characters to hide our inner child, mostly from ourselves. Some seem to allow the stresses of life and responsibilities to make the mask indistinguishable, but I doubt any truly make it real. Do you wear the mask of age over the eyes of your inner child? Does age hold a meaningful value to you beyond the comradery of shared experience?

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[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I sort of feel the opposite. My childhood self was least like who I really am. Aging has been a process of becoming my true self and expressing it honestly. If anything, the only thing that feels like a mask is my aging body—but my spirit/truth is constantly in a process of being revealed.

[–] ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk 2 points 17 hours ago

My child self was a bumbling idiot who I would dislike or be indifferent to if I met them. Gradually over the course of decades I have become vaguely competent and capable of not making an idiot of myself daily. I'll probably feel the same about present me later.