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[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Been raped twice by two different women, I'd still be fine with it. If I let my experiences with women (that + 3 serious relationships ended in them cheating) cloud my judgement of the entire gender I'd be an "incel," so I don't, I give each individual a fair shake because my past trauma isn't their fault.

Hope that helps! I've lost patience with you, you're arguing in bad faith now calling someone saying "smile more" literal rape, invalidating what happened to me (actual rape) with that horse shit is a bad look but you do you. OH I almost missed the part where you straight up say "rape isn't as bad when women do it" holy shit I don't like you.

[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

"bad faith"?

I'm responding directly to your questions and quotes with factual information and course-correcting your tangents, implications and assumptions.

that's not bad faith.

"you're...calling someone saying "smile more" literal rape"

nope, you are making that up.

or making a connection that isn't there.

"you do you"

i do!

"rape isn't as bad when women do it"

this is literally your argument for why women shouldn't be upset about sexual assault.

because it didn't bother you when women "raped" you.

If it makes you upset, don't make that argument.