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how's your week going, Beehaw (beehaw.org)
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it has been unusually hot in our apartment this week and most of the past three days have been spent mitigating that

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[–] russjr08@bitforged.space 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Well, my father's funeral service was today. I lost him at the beginning of the month.

It's been rough. There were a lot of issues between him and I during my childhood which caused me to quickly cut off contact with him after I moved out. But I'd always hoped that eventually there would be a way to fix things, and now that will never happen.

So there's a lot of guilt. I do not think it was wrong to remove him from my life, but it was never intended to be a permanent thing - it's forever written in stone as it is now though.

I need to get into some grief counseling, but starting that process has been difficult for me. It doesn't help that I already have a lot of other medical issues constantly ongoing, and now this is just another thing to add to the list.

[–] Dymonika@beehaw.org 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

So sorry you're going through this! I know I'm a stranger but I'm just a message away if you'd like a listening ear.

[–] russjr08@bitforged.space 6 points 3 months ago

Thank you!