wren

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[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 2 points 9 months ago

Wouldn’t even be mad

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 14 points 9 months ago

I mean people using libraries for the most part don’t really understand the decimal system and probably wouldn’t get the significance of it being in the 000s - especially the 000s where it’s sandwiched between computer science and knowledge structure & other general works. When I’m compelled to aquire a bs book in any category, simply because patron demand is high, I prefer it be in the same section as factual information so it may be drowned out a little more. (And I say aquire, instead of purchase, since those types of books I try to rent so they can be returned after it’s been taken out by those requesting it and it never makes its way into our full collection)

I do like the meme though! This format is pretty great and we do indeed need more librarian memes, I don’t mean to get all pedantic here haha

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 4 points 9 months ago

But you gotta admit, it’s a very Creed thing to do

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 3 points 9 months ago

I like onions, but the texture can be a big problem for me, depending on the day. Doesn't matter how it's prepared: raw, sauteed, cooked, cooked within an inch of its life, does not make a difference

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 20 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Do you happen to work at a mid-sized paper company?

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Ahaha no worries, really; it definitely is

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 7 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

Gotta love VPNs. And not a sir, but you are welcome!

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 22 points 9 months ago

That moment when you get decision paralysis on which game to play, and just wind up stress scrolling through your phone instead

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 24 points 9 months ago (10 children)

Just don't start dabbling in bomb-crafting and manifesto writing and you'll be sorted

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 2 points 10 months ago

Definitely varies for people, and there is actually a book coming out soon called “The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center” that you might find an interesting read.

For me, my fiancée is my best friend. Sure we’ve both had best friends before, but the connection was instant and way more intense than with anyone else for both of us. What makes our relationship different than a friendship is that we want to build a life together, we’re a team, we’re each eachother’s top priority, and, yes like most relationships there’s a physical aspect to it, amongst other things. The phrase ‘she’s my person’ really encompasses what it feels like, personally anyway.

If somethings right, you’ll feel it. When you find someone that sparks a connection beyond just friends, you’ll know. And if that never happens, don’t be too hard on yourself and start thinking there’s something wrong with you. Being neurodivergent and on the asexual / aromantic spectrum can make these questions harder, if they apply. Just do what feels right and don’t over think it too much. Easier said than done, I know

[–] wren@sopuli.xyz 2 points 10 months ago

Oh, good shout! That one looks 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

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