You're like the very shining example of who I refer to when it comes to talking about issues people have a hard time discussing. You want to know why you may think not enough people are talking about things they should? It's because of people who draw things down to generalization, like you. You think nothing but black and white.
You think that anything anyone says that is somewhat in what you feel is against your own narrative, they must be X for arbitrary reasons.
Nobody can say anything about other people of color or they're racist.
Nobody can say anything about other people from different parts of the world or they're xenophobic.
Nobody can say anything about the other gender or they're sexist.
That's how you think and I can't ever imagine what it's like in your shoes because it sounds like some internal misery is going on in your thinking process and the way you process what's infront of you. It's infantile, to me.
How about you call someone something when they're actively working against the rights of or advocating the extermination of a certain group.
Just because they're tired of something doesn't mean they're who you think they are. In otherwords, get a damn clue.
Egg nog.