insomniacalmond

Like, how are you, not just as a greeting.

This is for people who went to an English-speaking school not knowing English and their experiences, whether it was because you were never taught to speak English, were learning it but not yet fluent, or because you moved from another country.

(posting to here bc it’s my actual lesbian community)

Okay, that’s good for you that you thought you only liked women until you met your boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean that some man is gonna magically make me like men more.

I’m probably a biromantic lesbian because there are men I would still date, and they’re sorta like exceptions for me.

Whenever the topic comes up/I mention it for whatever reason, maybe for advice, whatever, I tell my friend (gf's friend, acquaintance i just met, or not a close friend who i talk to a lot), and they say something like “Oh, I used to think I only liked girls too until I met my handsome boyfriend ❤️”

And: “Maybe one day a man will change your life and point of view just like a man changed mine <33”

I’m happy for you and your BF, and I’m glad that you figured out you liked men too. I’m happy it worked for you, but like I said, some people aren’t attracted to men. A man isn’t going to “fix them” or “change their life”.

I don’t need a man to make me realize that I really like guys all along or anything. I get that some people are just trying to relate to the situation and that’s fine, but I’ve gotten this response a lot and needed to rant a little.

(I’m bored)

https://youtu.be/eO0QHpC0S4U

(Not sure how to attach video)

(Sorry if this doesn’t belong here, it’s kind of related to the instance.)

For example, I tried subscribing to the Brazil instance, only to find that there was no posts.

When I went to lemmy.pt, there were many posts??

When I made a post saying “hi”, it appears that no one even saw it.

Does that happen to be a blocked instance or something, because I don’t see it on there, but I may have not looked at all the instances.

I guess “vamos lésbicas” 🇧🇷

And in the language I’m learning: “chodźmy lesbijki” 🇵🇱

(I was gonna put this on an LGBT community but I can’t find one I’m looking for that’s just for talking)

Okay, that’s good for you that you thought you only liked women until you met your boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean that some man is gonna magically make me like men more.

I say I’m bi/perhaps omni because there are men I would still date, and they’re sorta like exceptions for me. But if not, I’d say I was a lesbian. Anyway, there was a period where I did think I might have been a lesbian.

Whenever the topic comes up/I mention it for whatever reason, maybe for advice, whatever, I tell my friend, and they say something like “Oh, I used to think I only liked girls too until I met my handsome boyfriend ❤️”

And: “Maybe one day a man will change your life and point of view just like a man changed mine <33”

I’m happy for you and your BF, and I’m glad that you figured out you liked men too. I’m happy it worked for you, but like I said, some people aren’t attracted to men. A man isn’t going to “fix them” or “change their life”.

I don’t need a man to make me realize that I really like guys all along or anything. I get that some people are just trying to relate to the situation and that’s fine, but I’ve gotten this response a lot and needed to rant a little.

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lesbians

Hopefully it gets active :3

I, personally, am on the verge of passing out.

I've seen the quote a lot.

Ones with a lot of communities