dillekant

Unless the keyboard and mouse is bluetooth, it should be fine. USB keyboards and mice work fine.

Also, during installation, the RGB or other advanced functionality might not work. Unsure if that's a dealbreaker.

One of my challenges is good labelling. A product can make the claim it's sustainable but products make a lot of bogus claims. I'd pay more if the label was worth a damn.

Yeah interesting. I feel like there's also a sort of ownership that comes from actually doing the work, so doing the cooking means managing the cooking, but things you both need to share are managed in a shared way too, like school pickups (almost everyone I know has to co-ordinate these).

I feel like comics like the above sometimes give men the permission to not "own" being adults, because "that's just how men are", but fundamentally that's not true. In my view, the right and masculine thing to do is to do half the work and communicate, share, etc.

So this but literally.

Yeah, if that's happening this is pretty unhealthy. I honestly think that's embarrassing for the man. That's just being an overgrown child. Your partner is not meant to be your mum.

I think this is straying from the point frog. The issue is not "the man can wash clothes", it's "the woman often owns the problem of keeping the clothes clean and in the right spot". Men tend to "help" but don't think about the constant labor of keeping the house clean. Maybe the other way to think about it is: If one day the woman silently stopped cleaning and all the clothes end up dirty, would the man just take it in stride? I think not, I think there would be a silent argument.

OK, I agree that management is work, but I don't agree that it's half the work. It's this kind of argument that allows CEOs to be paid millions. They manage thousands of people, after all, the business responsibilities fall on them!

It's a load of rubbish, and frankly, you know it is because if I flipped that around you would not be happy. ie: You don't have to "own the problem" of cooking, cleaning, bills, mowing, etc. I'll set up a roster and then you can do all the work. It's still half the work right?

In a practical sense, for our house we work as a board of directors. Talk about the problem (Often it's as simple as declaring what you're doing, "I'm making X do you want some"), share ownership, help out when the other person is struggling, lean on them when you are stuggling, and share your plans. Like 80% of the problems I've had in who does what and when have been resolved by just sitting down and talking about it. It sucks, it's adulting, but it's also the only way that's fair. Other people divvie up the work (you own cooking I own children) or spaces (you own kitchen I own garage) etc.

Hello, thanks for engaging, I know this is not my space and I don't want you to feel uncomfortable. Firstly, I acknowledged that men generally do not do their share of the housework. The argument in the comic is that it's not just the labor, but also the management work which needs to happen.

It was the management that I was trying to address, and specifically, that maybe because nothing outside the house was mentioned in the comic, maybe the management of all of this stuff was simply invisible to the writer. My point was more that as partners, they need to talk to each other (and that's on both of them). If you ask a husband and wife (eg, like in the comic) about anything and get two misaligned answers ("I do half the work"; "no he does not"), that means communication is not happening.

Thanks Janet. Seems like you two do a great job of communicating. Would you say you both share the management tasks 50/50 as well? With me and my wife, neither of us "owns" the problem, we just both do things to solve it based on what annoys us. It works pretty well usually, but I do feel like we should draw lines to say "no this is definitely my project to manage".

If you're not paying for it, you're the product.

Wait no... it seems like capitalists will charge for whatever they can get away with. Those bastards!

Not a woman, so feel free to downvote. I'd note there's no yard work, car servicing, plumbing or electrical work, Bills and finances, and so on. While I agree that in general men don't do their share of the housework, I think it's important in a relationship to ask, understand, and acknowledge what the other person is doing. Maybe it's actually a fair bit and it's invisible to you. (Same goes the other way, obviously; it's important to communicate is my point)

Nice. It's on the reading pile :)