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If yall want, we can maybe even make a big room or something where we can hang out and chat. IDK, I just need more interaction with cool people who are trans and wholesome. If yall know any good Matrix servers that are trans-focused/just have a ton of trans people in them, please feel free to send them to me. I'm dying for community right now tbh.

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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

So, we haven't really been pushing it yet, but it sounds like it might be time to change that.

We (blahaj.zone) have a matrix space, Into the Genderverse! Feel free to all jump in there and check it out!

#genderverse-chat:chat.blahaj.zone.

[–] knightly@pawb.social 11 points 7 months ago (4 children)
[–] cetvrti_magi@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago
[–] wh0_cares@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago
[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)
[–] knightly@pawb.social 3 points 7 months ago
[–] cetvrti_magi@lemmy.world 18 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Having Matrix room sounds great, I'd also like to have more interaction with other trans girls.

[–] kaityy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 7 months ago

yayy ~ yeah just dm me ur matrix account so I can message you and I'll add you to the room when I make it

[–] KillingAndKindess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Not sure if remember what matrix is, but I'm down to be friends!

[–] kaityy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 7 months ago

matrix is another federated platform, but for chatting. The most popular client is Element, which is a web app. just make yourself an account and dm me your account name and I'll add you to the room that I make!!

[–] cetvrti_magi@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 7 months ago

don't use the matrix.org homeserver please, it's not very free.

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I’d love to join too ! I don’t know any communities on Matrix, but if there’s none we can start one

[–] kaityy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 7 months ago

I'd love to! once we get a few people, I'll probably make a room or something idk

[–] fadingembers@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 7 months ago (3 children)

What's a good server to set up a matrix account on?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 7 months ago (2 children)
[–] sarahnya@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

How do I register an account nya?~

[–] Kayel@aussie.zone 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Download Element (iOS/F-Droid/Google store) or visit app.element.io

Type blahaj.zone into Homeserver (it may say host)

Try to sign up

Be asked for registration token

@Ada, may I have a registration token?

[–] sarahnya@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago

that helped ty!!~ :D I saw the announcement with the registration token a bit ago but couldn't figure out how to actually make the account at the time. but your directions worked~ ^w^

[–] Anise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I get an error from Element that says "the application is not able to create an account on this homeserver. Do you want to signup using a web client?"

Saying Yes to this prompt brings me to a dead link.

What am I missing?

[–] Kayel@aussie.zone 1 points 7 months ago

Hmm, maybe try app.element.io

There may be an issue with sign up on the phone app, but log in should work once you have an account

[–] -Emma-@fedia.io 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Hey Ada, Mbin doesn't seem to support sending messages to Lemmy users yet, so I made an account on lemmy.ca to send you a message:

May I please have a registration token for Blahaj.zone matrix account?

❤️

(I made the account on old.lemmy.ca because it uses mlmym and doesn't require javascript - I'm weird, I know...)

Edit: Thanks! I've joined successfully. 🥳

(Also, I've been informed that Blahaj also supports mlmym: https://mlmym.lemmy.blahaj.zone)

[–] Kayel@aussie.zone 3 points 7 months ago

Need a hobby? Host your own!

You will be surprised at how many attacks there are. I defederated and I get almost no probing now.

[–] kaityy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 months ago

there's websites out there to compare servers based on their listed policies, I use catgirl.cloud because it looks pretty good on paper, haven't been using it for very long though so idk