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I asked if people chose iPhone for the blue bubbles elsewhere a couple days ago, and while there was some good discourse on that post, the blue bubbles definitely also came up as a reason.

In my experience, when people find out my texts are green, they oftentimes would rather switch to a different platform altogether like Instagram or just not text at all.

Is this actually a deal-breaker in friendships out there?

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[–] boonhet@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)

For stupid or vain people, maybe. And only in countries where people send SMS anyway.

I haven't used SMS actively ever, because as soon as smartphones got popular, everyone moved to Facebook, and then later I got my friends to move to Telegram if they wanted to keep talking to me.

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[–] daniskarma@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Which country are we talking about?

I barely know people using iOS, much less being elitist about it.

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[–] sloppy_diffuser@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Signal is my preferred messenger right now since I convinced my contacts to move to it. Collects the least and it is private.

There is also Session which is a Signal fork that removes phone number linking.

Matrix for a privacy focused federated messaging system is another option.

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[–] amenotef@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is mainly an issue in countries that still use SMS as main IM platform.

In most countries (where mobile internet coverage is good) the main IM and VoIP platform is an app like WhatsApp and similars.

(The only thing I hate from WhatsApp is that is from Meta and as any Meta app it abuses background usage. I'd replace it with another app but all my friends, colleagues, even shops use it)

[–] Wander@yiffit.net 10 points 1 year ago

Not to mention that any problems caused by green bubble lack of compatibility are Apple's fault, not Android's.

[–] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I find it easier to convince Apple users to use another app like Signal to group chat with Android users instead if they really don't want the green bubble.

Alternatively, you can get a secondary iPhone just to use iMessage, but carrying 2 phones does get annoying.

[–] za_snake_guy@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (11 children)

I think this is mostly an issue in the US. The rest of the world uses a variety of messaging apps instead of text messaging. Here in South Africa WhatsApp and Telegram are prevalent.

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[–] fugepe@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] GregorGizeh@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t think I have ever given a shit about the bubble color, and I’m an iPhone user for well over a decade now. I don’t know anyone who actually uses messages for their main communication, they use other apps for that.

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[–] deweydecibel@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There's a podcast I listen to where the LA comedians routinely use Android as a punchline, while clearly having very little understanding of it. They talk about android users as if they're this bizarre group of social outcasts and libertarians. Tech isn't the topic of the podcast, it's just something I notice any time Android comes up during improv or something. Like this is a well they routinely fall back on. And a lot of guests seem to think something similar.

So I believe there is a weird stigma, but it exists in certain areas more than others. LA is iPhone country, lot of people there see Android as some subpar aberration.

[–] OfficeChair@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Everyone I know uses WhatsApp, and they're not childish enough for carrying about green or blue bubbles. So weird.

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[–] Irulebabey@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

It's a bummer that anyone is made feel this way about the phones they use. I've been an iOS user since my first smartphone and could not give less of a fuck if you are as well or if you use Android. Most of my friends are Android users and our message threads, video messaging, etc is all fine. I feel like I see this thread a lot on every platform and the comments section is just a place for people to vent about how much they hate the other operating system (and most of the time they have never even used the other lol).

[–] Alkider@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Apparently for some people they see it as a gimped version of IOS somehow. If anything IOS from what I've used before is so much more locked down now than it used to be when I had a 3G. But yeah the stigma is there with some people, but it doesn't really matter at this point. If you want to side load apps, use android because you don't have to go out of your way to get dev permissions, hook it up to the PC to install, and constantly re-approve your side-loaded apps. Seriously that shit gets annoying real fast.

[–] infamousbelgian@waste-of.space 9 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Deal-breaker in friendship? Hell no. If a friendship is defined by what phone you are using, the world is close to ending I think. Deal-breaker for me personally (as in: I need to use Android device): yes. I'm not making the switch to something Google.

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[–] adibis@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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[–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago

I came in here expecting to explain why I'll never have an iPhone lol

I had forgotten about the stupid thing where teenagers care about the color of your text bubble

[–] Infinity13@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (11 children)

I don't care much about iMessage. All the people I know who are not an iPhone users use facebook messenger and cry about how bad quality sending pictures and videos are. But do nothing to change that. Thats the problem. I was going though hell to convince my girlfriend to use Signal to chat with me. Because she is an Android user. I hate FB, Insta, WhatsApp and all that stuff.

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[–] WhoRoger@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It may sound weird, but your choice of phone does say something about you. I have to say I am dismayed when I see an iPhone in someone's hand. I may understand their reasons, but still. I can imagine it works the other way around too.

I mean, to take it to the extreme: I remember a Reddit debate about a married couple, where the husband was an open source, anti-corporate advocate, and the wife wanted to fill their house with Amazon Alexa speakers.

20 years ago, your choice of brand for TV or camera wouldn't matter much, but now it can indeed be a big deal.

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[–] X1M@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've had an iPhone for a long time and I've never got a person sending me a SMS. All I get are automatic messages about deliveries and stuff. I guess iMessage is more a thing in the USA?

[–] S_204@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Most of the world uses Android. The fetish for Apple is a pretty uniquely American thing.

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[–] ollietest@lemmy.codesink.io 8 points 1 year ago

Not for adults

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