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I got banned from reddit (honestly feel a lot better without it)

But I miss being able to answer stupid questions and relationship questions.

Lemmy is great, but why aren't there that many people on here? I don't get it.

An I using my filters wrong or something?

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[–] bkrl@lemmy.ml 30 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I leaved Google and Reddit in last two days. Continue my devalleyzation (Silicon Valley).

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Congratulations, keep up the good work. One day you'll run a custom operating system on your phone and your own social network on the internet if you want. :D

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[–] Catradora_Stalinism@lemmy.ml 29 points 2 years ago (1 children)

All instances (mostly lemmy and lemmygrad) are experiencing a steady increase in usership.

[–] TimothyMcFuck@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Is lemmy like or the same thing as mastodon? Like ok, I LOVED reddit. However there are so many crazy, Whitney, and totalitarian moderators who shut you down for defending your position or saying anything that goes against the echo chamber. I always had this 'feeling' of pressure to watch what I say. So at that point, it kills the experience. If I say you're an ass kisser, I'm permanently banned? How can anyone last on there? The internet is the wild west, you should be able to say what you want

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[–] alatheus@lemmy.perthchat.org 28 points 2 years ago

Social media is "winner takes all". People go to where other people are. It's very hard to break out of that.

[–] Catradora_Stalinism@lemmy.ml 28 points 2 years ago (2 children)

filter by All, but if you don't like communism, do not do that

[–] mmhmm@lemmy.ml 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This should be posted on the main page; it would help resolve people's culture shock after leaving walled media gardens

[–] xenith@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

More like if you dont like the 4 prolific posters' personal take on communism. Lemmygrad gets so much hate because a few peoplewithj nothing better to do post 80% of the political content. Every collective (reddit) have their hive minds but Lemmygrad is like a small town church that prescribes exactly what you're supposed to see and think. It's pretty gross.

[–] CriticalResist8@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Lemmygrad gets "hate" because we're one of the most active instances and liberals cannot stand that communists are not only allowed to talk about communism, but that they actually get attention and activity. Deal with it.

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[–] graphito@beehaw.org 21 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I hope at some point regular users like you would help us to churn out enough content for the whole day. So far, thank you for your post, don't forget to explore other instances and global feed.

[–] TimothyMcFuck@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 years ago

Thank you. You made my day :'D I'm definitely going to

[–] MerchantsOfMisery@lemmy.ml 20 points 2 years ago (1 children)

For the same reason a lot of people prefer cities over towns.

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[–] sexy_peach@feddit.de 20 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Also I think not having a huge amount of content is a drawback. Users are looking for that (including me).

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[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 19 points 2 years ago (15 children)

Competition, reputation and federation. In essence, retention.

  1. Competition

There's a ton of social news aggregators out there and most of them are much better at advertising their site than the entire lemmyverse together.

  1. Reputation

Lemmy has a reputation among many as a far left, for some - extremist platform. A large mastodon user that boosts accounts actively warned about Lemmy in a pretty bad way a while back. The other day a public representative for a company withdrew their community the same day they created it due to the public backlash.

  1. Federation

It's difficult to grasp how federation, and particularly lemmy federation works for people unfamiliar with the concept. They might get a wrong impression of the lemmyverse after visiting just one instance, not realizing it's only a part of it. Or they could be stuck on an instance with few posts that interests them.

[–] hamborgr@feddit.de 11 points 2 years ago (5 children)

The other day a public representative for a company withdrew their community the same day they created it due to the public backlash.

This was probably Bitwarden on the Sopuli instance right? Could you perhaps share a link discussing this in detail?

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] nachtigall@feddit.de 20 points 2 years ago (3 children)

we had to remove the Bitwarden instance for the time being, to review the flood of responses coming in to us from the community regarding information about the purpose behind Lemmy via the creators

What the heck? It's free software and a specific detail about free software is that it may be used for any purpose regardless of the authors ideas. That's some serious fucked up witch hunt.

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 9 points 2 years ago

it may be used for any purpose regardless of the authors ideas.

To be honest, I haven't seen the developers put any demands or anything on what people use it for. Just look at Wolfballs and how it's on https://join-lemmy.org/instances despite their home server blocking them. I think that's very respectable.

That’s some serious fucked up witch hunt.

I don't think so. It's just that a bad reputation lasts a long time, and the lemmy platform have had some rowdy representation for a while. Again, the developers have taken sensible steps when they started promoting Sopuli and Beehaw on the join-lemmy page, two seemingly wholesome instances that welcomes anyone.

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[–] hamborgr@feddit.de 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Such a shame...

I was even excited to see them join a community as small as ours.

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 7 points 2 years ago

I know, it really saddened me. We need to discuss these things, work together to change the federated culture and become attractive to new users. But it feels like everywhere I look, people either want to compete directly or they can't see the big picture.

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[–] VinesNFluff@beehaw.org 17 points 2 years ago
  1. Lemmy is newer than Reddit. Reddit has been up for over 15 years.
  2. Lemmy is a Reddit clone but less well known, thus, whatever advantages it has over Reddit, you can pretty much assume anyone who comes to Lemmy is someone who was on Reddit and saw some reason to leave. Or even still uses Reddit but is trying their hand here too. At least for now.
  3. Thus, the Lemmy userbase will, at least within the near future, be a small subset of current or former Redditors.
[–] Ottar@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 2 years ago

I love how the people in this thread with the biggest issues with lemmygrad specifically are the people who got banned for bigotry or racism in some form when they came over and chatted shit.

[–] nachtigall@feddit.de 9 points 2 years ago

Chicken or the egg problem. Many people want a lot of (quality) content and diverse content comes from many people.

[–] sexy_peach@feddit.de 9 points 2 years ago (7 children)

We all were using reddit at some point without thinking about alternatives. Once thinking about alternatives, there are a lot of reddit alternatives out there.

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[–] bkrl@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

To be honest Reddit shows more tits and big asses than Lemmy. Maybe people have some issue to leave that Paradise. 🀭

[–] nachtigall@feddit.de 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Damn, we need an NSFW instance.

[–] coldhotman@nrsk.no 9 points 2 years ago (8 children)

I don't mind a naughty instance, it's easy to block. Just don't start mixing regular content with NSFW on the same server, be it sexy or gory. It would be a nightmare to moderate federation for regular instances and it would be so much easier to just block the whole server.

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